
Is it wrong that I'm excited about someone else already?
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So, I was seeing this guy. We weren't officially in a relationship, but I really liked him. It was the first time in years that l'd genuinely liked someone (my first and only relationship was in 2022).
Then I found out that he had lied about still being in contact with his ex. They would talk every now and then. I even pulled a prank to confirm it, but it turned out the grass wasn't greener on the other side. That was a huge turn-off for me, especially since they had dated for two years. So, I cut all ties with him.
Now, before I met him, I had a crush on another guy at my gym. I've never spoken to him—he was just nice to look at. He stopped coming to the gym for about a month, but now he's back, and I find myself feeling excited to go to the gym again.
Am I guilty or a bad person for feeling this way?
Considering that I was seeing someone else just a month ago, and that only lasted about two weeks, I feel conflicted.