A friend of a relative will rent me his apt in Grant Park building in downtown (Elliot park) Minneapolis.
Furnished. 1 Bd. 950sq. Building has all amenities, and utilities come down to 25ish $ a month. He is still thinking about the rent he will charge but promised to offer something cheaper than the area.
What do you think I should expect based on the above. Just so I'm in the picture. Thanks!
Or should I just lose it as in 2nd pic? I’ve been growing it for a month- trying something new. My beard doesn’t grow fully yet on my cheeks. So was thinking of doing this instead. Last is AI.
i’m moving soon from New York City to Minneapolis. I’m looking for suggestions on apartments that would be walkable/bike distance from Hennepin healthcare. I live alone and my budget is 1500 – 1900. I just value really good amenities (gym, pool) and service.
I think I saw two coyotes today for the first time today in nyc while running this morning at Claremont park in the Bronx!
I’m seeking some honest advice or maybe a push. I met a girl when I was away from my city for a month on a bus. We had a small thoughtful interaction and for some reason I had the courage to ask for her number. We connected really well on our first date. And on my last week we pretty much spent it mostly together.
Going back to my city, we spoke over the phone a lot. This carried on for a month, two, then eventually she is now ghosting me.
when I came back with mention that I did not want anything serious just yet because I’m facing a lot of instability. I did not know where I’m gonna end up a few months from that time and I had a lot of immigration issues that I needed to resolve. So I felt it unfair to have a relationship when I was facing such extreme uncertainty. We did exchange hand-written letters and a lot of romance while we were away. Thinking back, I’ve sent a lot more while she sent only one. Sometimes, sending her flowers to her home when she’s sick. A lot of postcards. The reason it was evolving this way from my end is because slowly these issues that I had were starting to resolve. I got accepted for a job that’s lined up in July in her city. Things are starting to work out miraculously regarding immigration and I might be able to make it. Not to mention that our conversations were always really nice and I always lit up when I talked to her.
However when these things started to sort out she really faded away and now I feel like it’s a one sided thing. I feel a lot of pressure when I want to send a text or give a call because she barely responds anymore and when she does it feels very casual. she did randomly bring up one time that she misses me and that she wanted me there. I do like her but I think at this point if I bring that up, it’s not gonna go well and I’m not gonna be happy. I do feel some frustration from the ghosting that came out of nowhere, but I think it will go away with time. when I brought up me missing her and wanting to book a flight, she ghosted. She’s one of the sweetest girls I’ve ever met. I sent her a playlist recently despite her showing non-interest (how dumb of me!). She is a hard-core activist that organises a lot of events and confronts many politicians, protests, etc. She even got arrested once. I do understand when she’s busy but going unanswered for over three days is too much.
Outside of this chaos, I’m a well rounded 25 year-old who’ll be working as a doctor soon if things work out. I keep myself busy with gym, running, writing, and advocacy work. I was having a hard time and maybe I’ve showed my vulnerable side and I have been too nice and that threw her off? Also some context, I did not grow up in America. Our cultures are different. She’s white American and I’m Syrian. I think it’s time to move on and maybe catch up with her only if I end up in her city?
PS I’m sorry if there are some spelling or grammar mistakes I did write this through my mic and I am too lazy to proofread.
Hey I was wondering if anyone would like to join me on slow pace runs at Central Park. I’m still at beginners so my pace is between 10 and 11The only issue is I usually run at night. I feel it is much more peaceful then and it makes going to sleep with my insomnia easier.