Not missing your s/o
So I don’t know if this is an ADHD thing or not (I’m not diagnosed officially)
But my s/o used to say “I miss you” and “I love you” as a part of good night texts everyday - there was a 12 hour time difference so it would occur in both our morning and evening when either of us would go to bed
We would have just talked on video call/ texted so I didn’t really get the feeling of “missing” somebody. So whenever he used to say this I used to reply with a goodnight and I love you too
After a month or two, he asked me don’t you miss me? I said since we are talking on the phone daily and interacting all the time I don’t really get the feeling of “missing”
But I knew he wanted it so I started including I miss you too as a part of my good night texts
Was the way I handled this mature? Would really appreciate your opinions