u/ZetaKriepZ

Hi there, I was the person who posted this almost two years ago.

After I posted this, I got alot of helpful insights and second opinions about my situations back then and I would like to thank everyone who gave me support around that time.

I am a man of my word and did exactly what you guys told me: I did therapy, joined hobby and interest groups, faced my fears, and be the best version of myself overall, and they were all very helpful in the long run: gave me acquiantances and bad experiences I could learn from and grow as a person.

Although I still never have a partner after that post, but the rejections and a bad "relationship" gave me some perspective. It just really have something to do with my growing social skills and inexperience about the dating world. I did get hurt real bad with one of the rejections I had and it was due to RSD and anxiety attacks.

Thanks to these experiences, it made me learn things like people who are dry irl and online shows that they are not interested whatsoever, and that asking someone out right off the bat will reveal if that person who show "signs" shows genuine interest or just wanted attention. It made me learn about the concept of "breadcrumbing" and it's one of the worst things in dating and socializing in general, and I believe that most girls I liked did exactly just this, less subtle than the next

Over all, I am doing fine. I do have problems and still need to keep fixing myself from the inside out.
Loving myself, having fun and living in the moment is the best

So yeah that's all for this update, thank you again guys for helping. This little ol' late bloomer just have keep on going

Peace out

TLDR: Posted once on this sub, was recommended self-improvement and did exactly that. Had up-and-downs learning from it despite not having a partner yet, but life is good

EDIT: grammar

This is dedicated to everyone who are socially awkward

Comment if you like the song or any other feedback, cheers

https://x.com/takasiromanof/status/2082662475648897167

After her racing career, Laurel decided to make her career as a folk musician full-time

https://preview.redd.it/gfw6135dmhih1.png?width=889&format=png&auto=webp&s=67e977d3a13678f7a71d7aa20c175a7ca4f021e1

For example, you wanted to listen to italo disco but algo sneaks in some Western pop music that does not fit the genre/subgenre and then you stopped playing music for a while because of it.

Does anyone else relate?

Prepare to be infodumped if you dare to call a random 80s song "new wave"

There's more to 80s than Top 40 songs and adult-oriented music (through the course of history tbh), and also different punk, metal, disco, electronic, rock, pop from that decade that I will be like a leaking hose once you say you like "80s music"

Not to mention different countries as well, as most songs and artists did not make it in the West because they thought they are too "uncool", or vice-versa

Edit: too evil that I have to add stuff