should i text him?
so i matched with this guy on a dating app, he’s 3 years older than me and he’s a nerdy guy which is totally my type and i immediately swiped right when i saw him cause i also saw he has the same interests as me but at that time i wasn’t hoping for a match but three days after that, we matched and we talked a lot about what we like and what we do. he reads a lot of manga so i tried to ask him a lot about it and he happily answered and he does the same with my hobbies and it felt like we really clicked and after four days of talking i finally felt comfortable and maybe he did too (?) and he asked for my socials so we exchanged them. after that we talked about a couple stuff, he complimented how i looked like a really cheerful person and how i could light up the room every time i talked, i get why he was open about this after we exchanged socials, that’s because i post a lot on my social media and maybe that’s the first time he saw that side of me. but then after that maybe we both got busy cause i was facing my finals and then we stopped talking and left as just mutuals on our own social media. i initially wanted to text him but i felt insecure and scared that what if he’s saying those things out of pity (?) and honestly i really want to talk to him again but i’m not sure what to say or should i even text at all? i need advice please