u/_trypophobia_

Is there an identity for this? I've identified as lesbian, then pansexual, but the only relationship I've ever had with a man was absolutely horrible. So now I'm leaning more towards lesbian, but am unsure.

The only things I remember about the song is that it sounded sad and had strange lyrics. The only lyrics I can remember are "paper plane", "carnival", "coins", and "boy"

I know this is barely anything, but if you have any idea, let me know

Hi. so for some context, I'm transmasc. I go by he/him but don't really care too much if people call me she or they.

I transitioned around a year and a half ago, and I'm at the point where I can pass as a man or a woman depending on how I want to present that day. I came out to my mom and dad early early on, and they've had mixed feelings on it. My mom says she supports trans people, but also says she "knows I'm not really trans". And like- I love her and know she means well but it still really hurts. My dad just shuts down Everytime I bring it up.

I changed my name awhile back, and they've been calling me that name for awhile. I'm so so so grateful that they call me by my preferred name, and I know I probably sound super ungrateful for wanting more than that.

My mom specifically is really weird with pronouns. She thinks going be they/them is weird and she has refused to call me he/him until I "prove I'm actually trans". Everytime I ask how I can prove it she says I can't. My parents have sat me down multiple times and told me straight up that they know I'm not trans because I wear makeup and there were no signs.

This all was a year ago now, and I'm thinking about maybe trying to see if they'll call me he/him now. I have "reasons" ready on why I know I'm trans if they ask. I feel terrible because I love them so much, and I know this is hard for them. But this would mean a lot to me, and I've given them time to adjust.

Im so sorry if I worded anything badly or used bad grammar, I'm not very good at typing what I mean. Again so sorry.

So, WIBTA?

I have c-ptsd and have been looking into getting a service dog recently. It seems like a good idea, only issue is I have two cats. Theyre both scared VERY easily, so I just don't know if it's possible.

And with what I know about dogs, they'd be likely to hate my cats. So I'm just not sure what to do about this.

Thoughts?