I’m in a very bad spot in life…
And if me surviving and lasting this long had meaning it was to watch this anime… It’s an absolute masterpiece.
I’m soo grateful to be able to watch it.
My pancakes taste so bad now…
I'm 28 and going through a very difficult period in my life. Breakup, social isolation, family issues. Developed into a lot of anxiety, depression, fear and especially loneliness. At the same time, I've also had some painful realizations about people I considered close friends, they talk shit behind my back.
I'm talkative, social, I go climbing, I dance, and I'm generally comfortable meeting people. But despite that, I spend an enormous amount of my actual life alone.
I'm posting because I'm wondering if there is someone else in a similar position who genuinely wants to change that.
I'm not really looking for the usual "let's grab coffee sometime" friendship where we exchange a few messages and then schedule something three weeks from now. I'm looking for someone who is also struggling with isolation or loneliness and actually wants another person in their life regularly.
Someone who might spontaneously say or wants to be asked:
"Want to go somewhere?"
I don't mind doing a lot of the initiating at first. I'm very talkative and usually comfortable taking the social lead. I don't care if you're a guy or a girl as long as you a decent human being.
If you're isolated, going through a breakup, depression, anxiety, a major life change, moved somewhere and know nobody, or you're simply tired of spending most of your life alone, feel free to message me.
But I am looking for people who genuinely want to do something about their situation rather than just saying "we should meet sometime."
I'm in Stockholm, I'm a game dev, I'll leave a link to my old portfolio if you wanna see how I look, or looked before my life hit me.
EDIT: I'm not looking for someone who wants to listen, I've talked enough about my story with strangers, professionals, friends. That's not what this post is about. I'm trying to find someone who needs another person to be there.
Hey! I live in Sweden.
I’m going through a difficult period in my life right now, and I’ve been feeling quite lonely. I would like to meet someone I can talk to regularly and gradually build a genuine friendship with.
I’m not looking for anything romantic. I generally find it easier to open up to girls and tend to connect with them more naturally, I don't like sports or usual manly things. Gossip girl, vampire diaries are just examples of the shows I love xD. I would especially like to meet someone mature, emotionally aware, and comfortable having deeper conversations—no small talk.
Ideally, I’m looking for someone who would enjoy talking most days. We could message about ordinary life, vent when something is difficult, stream games or shows to each other, occasionally call, and play some cozy games together. I would like something reciprocal where we both take an interest in each other, rather than exchanging a few messages and disappearing.
A little about me:
It is not usual for me to look for friends online, but I would genuinely like to meet someone interested in building a close and lasting platonic friendship. I would prefer someone in Europe because the time zones are easier, and perhaps there could eventually be a possibility of meeting in person if we became good friends. For now, I’m only looking for an online connection.
I wonder if there's anyone from Sweden, who's going through a break-up. It's going very bad for me and I was thinking that maybe if I could talk to someone from here it'd be easier?
It’s 6am for me, another day i can’t sleep. It’s been soo long… I miss you so much. I don’t want to let go of you… even if you did, i hope I’ll be about to be okey being alone even though I’ll be sad. But what i had with you… is too precious for me to “move on” from. I truly love you, sunflower
Hello, I'd like to be short here. Basically, my partner left me, we were together for 3 years and we were inseparable, I am grieving very bad and it even turned suicidal, I don't have anyone else. She was my family, my home. And I wonder if there is someone who lost a healthy relationship, like a loving and good one, like I had... And feels extremly broken and doesn't want to let go... I don't want to let her go... I love her so much, it's been months now, and I just don't want to let her go... Is there someone who feels the same and just wants to have some company in this grieve.
Please no need to say that time heals or other platitudes, because it's just not true, it's not my first relationship at all.
I like to play games, I dance, climb, play volleyball and tried a lot of different sports. I'm quite easy to talk to and I'm social so there def won't be any awkward silences with me. I get along with girls usually much better, becasue I like to talk deep stuff and emotional stuff. So please, if anyone feels so heartbroken and lonely, could you text? I'm really struggling, I've been crying every single day since the break-up
Hi. I’m based in the Stockholm area and looking for a genuine, platonic connection with someone who may also be going through a difficult period in life.
My long-term partner recently broke up with me, and it has affected me very severely. I have been struggling to function, crying almost every day, and at one point I needed to spend time in a psychiatric ward. I am now receiving therapy and professional help, but the amount of time I spend alone is still extremely difficult.
I am not expecting another person to fix me or become responsible for my mental health. I would simply like to meet someone who understands what it is like when life is not going well—someone with whom the connection can be honest and reciprocal. I can listen to another person’s problems too, and it would be nice if we could support each other while also sharing normal and enjoyable parts of life.
Personality-wise, I am quite nerdy. I enjoy video games, anime, TV series, films and long conversations about psychology, relationships, life and other deeper subjects.
At the same time, I also enjoy more active things such as dancing, climbing and volleyball. I am therefore somewhere between a nerd who enjoys staying home and someone who likes going out and doing activities.
I am not interested in clubbing or partying. I prefer something quieter and more comfortable—playing games, watching something together, cooking, having coffee, taking a walk, talking for hours or simply spending time in the same room without needing to constantly entertain each other.
I know this may not be the most cheerful introduction, but I would rather be honest about my current situation. I am still capable of caring about other people, listening and having meaningful conversations. I am just going through a very serious period and feeling extremely lonely.