what’s your boundary for dating a new man?

i asked a guy if he watches porn and he said yes a couple times a week and said he stops when he is in a relationship. I’ve been with 2 porn addicts who said they would stop when we started our relationship. I’m not sure if I should believe. Do you trust or do you have a boundary around it now?

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u/airencitrine — 1 day ago
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as a grad student, how much of loans are federal vs provincial?

I also am wondering if bank loans/line of credit would be better than OSAP considering interest rates 😭 The provincial rate is just so high

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u/airencitrine — 3 months ago

do I have to choose school or starting a family?

I am 27 and totally single - I have to decide if I'm going to grad school/master's in the fall - I wanted to go to grad school for a while. However, I'm aware of my biological clock and opportunities to meet someone and start a family. I got anxious and frankly depressed because of this idea that women can't have it all (family, career etc) and that i'm giving up the opportunity to date and start a family when I'm in my 30s. I know having children would make me happy. I already am in my late 20s and I know I don't have all the time. I'm also really worried I won't meet my one, and I'd be sacrificing opportunities to find him if I go to grad school. Money is also a concern, if I pay for grad school I won't have as much money to support children and their life. Though I think grad school will pay off in my career the long run. I know I sound anxious and I appreciate any advice. thank you so much

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u/airencitrine — 3 months ago