u/alegria_dalmata

I find bots in which you're already given a role very annoying, as much as mlm or wlw ones. Let people roleplay in peace with the persona they want. ✌🏻

What I'd like to know is have any of you managed to find some workarounds to this? I am afraid that if you just act as your persona in such a chat the bot might get confused and write nonsense. Currently I am testing a scenario in which I start the chat in OOC, telling the bot why my persona is relevant to this chat and that I am replacing the character the bot wants me to be with my persona. Then I have written a few paragraphs, setting the scene in a more detailed way, and made my persona act instead of the character you're supposed to be. So far, Deepsqueak seems to have picked up on it, but it cannot be that easy, right? 🤨 Has anyone done something like this and did the chat stay consistent?

I am looking for recommendations on women YouTubers, vloggers/content creators (could be even on Instagram or on TikTok only) who fit the above criteria. I'll put some of my own too at the end.

I love content creators, especially ones who make aesthetic and cozy, slow living content that calms me down and inspires me.

One of the things I really don't vibe with is when I stumble upon a woman content creator who I really love, and then I find a video on her channel where she talks about her "amazing hubby" and it turns out they live in a huge house that's probably his and that he is the main provider in the household - all the while she is pretending to be this independent girly on video. Of course, if some women want to live such a life let them, but it isn't my preference and I would love to watch content creators with whom I can actually relate to.

Here are some I know of so far that fit this bill (all are under 30 btw, which I find really cool):

Katherine Karas: booktube, journaling, hobbies, daily vlogging

Reese Regan: YT & TikTok, mental health, fashion, hobbies

Megan Rhiannon: journaling, navigating neurodivergence, cozy spooky aesthetics

Ruby Granger: productivity, books, studying

I want to hear some of your suggestions if you have them! I think it's hard to find women creators like this, and I know they need more recognition.

I do get that it's in order for us to remain slaves to relationships/marriages with low-quality men because they mostly treat us as trophies, bangmaids and baby-popping machines. I just despise how common it is to hear men complain about how we have these unimaginable high standards that we picked up from "romance novels" or whatever. Even if that were true, don't they get that women are choosing romance novels over men they meet in real life for a reason?

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Wanting a man who bathes regularly - high standards.

Wanting a man to take care of his appearance - high standards.

Having a type, such as preferring blonde or dark haired men? Preposterous!

And the worst of all: wanting a man who is emotionally mature or has at least went to therapy a couple of times? Those men don't exist. We women want too much.

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Well, I hope these men realize that this is 2026 and women have control over their life choices. Women are perfectly capable and free to have any standards and preferences, which obviously include not settling for the bare minimum and remaining single forever if those aren't met.

Hi there, I'm 29F from Croatia, AuDHD, and I get this might sound corny but I'm just too full of love to give and I haven't yet found a person to pour it into. I'm a late bloomer, I haven't been in a relationship before, and now that I finally feel ready for it I think it's very hard to actually connect to people nowadays. Not unless you love casual sex and want to get a partner overnight, and I'm not like that. If that's the right way to do it though, I don't ever want to be right.

I'd love to become friends first, so we both trust each other and are able to confide in each other fully before progressing further if feelings develop. This is very important to me, not only as a demisexual in general, but also because I prefer deep talk over anything else. When I trust you, I'm an open book, and I would more than anything love it if we could be each others' safe harbor.

About me: Appearance-wise I'm of shorter and curvier stature. I'm very open, I like to talk about every and any topic, especially about things relating to the paranormal, the occult and psychology. I'm also very often in the fandom spaces as I have nerdy tendencies with a preference for indie games and interesting, deep stories in whichever format they are. I'm interested in all forms of art, especially video-making. In general, I am pro-kink, and sexuality is something that's very important to me, but it isn't something central to the relationship. I think of it as a form of worship, and that is precisely why I haven't attempted it yet. I haven't found someone who I'd like to worship in that way, and who I'd let worship me in return. That being said, that particular side of me gets unlocked like a final boss or an end-game reward, meaning until we've become so close that we know everything about each other, I'm practically asexual. 😅

As to my preferences? I would prefer someone who isn't overly masculine, who works on themselves or has done so (mental-health wise) and who takes care of their appearance. If you are a creative, bonus points 🤭. A nerdy cosplayer? +1000 points 🫣. (Obviously these aren't a requirement).

God this text is huge, but I had no idea how to make it smaller without leaving out some important things. I don't know where else to say these words, honestly, as navigating dating nowadays feels very odd and distressing. If you think we could be a match, don't hesitate to reach out 🖤

Lots of love!

During the last week or so I've been having a really bad experience using DS. The chat memories had been functioning really well up to this point, so this feels really disappointing. I find my characters repeating the same question they asked not even 4 messages ago, one that I have already answered. That's unacceptable for a paid model.

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The bots also seem to disregard pinned memories almost completely, to the point where the character acts surprised when my persona brings something up, something that's already been resolved as a part of the roleplay and something that's PINNED for them to remember.

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Atop of that, the characters suddenly start behaving differently when the memory goes down to 0% (despite having important points in the story pinned and important details remembered automatically). It makes no sense for the character to suddenly act distrustful of my persona, the way they were at the beginning of the roleplay, when there have been important (REMEMBERED) plot developments after that. It breaks the immersion and makes the roleplay feel aritifical and dumb. Please, cai team, look into this.