Is the Poly community is still divided?
I have been in the ENM space for 20+ years. Exploring many dynamic configurations for my needs. And since getting married and having a child, (we) have been focused on polygamy.
Since relocating to the Nordics, there is a knee jerk reaction when I say I am polygamous. They associate it with strict religious bias or woman abuse. Yet when I say those are the same arugments for polyamory in my home country, some get defensive.
Even after explaining my wife is from SE Asia and has preference over multiple women to build a loving and supportive home. I still receive criticism about this not being legal. Yet nothing stops multiple people from living together and building a large family together in a spiritual pursuit towards love.
Has anyone else come across this cognitive dissonance in their polygamy journey?