u/alriokidoki1

I’m not sure how I just realized this, but I’m pretty sure Vanicream Liquid Cleanser is ruining my skin.

My skin has been dry/dehydrated for a while now. I thought maybe I just over exfoliated so I stopped everything and just went to vanicream liquid cleanser ONLY at night followed by the vanicream lotion (lotion I love doesn’t break me out).

I have been using this face wash for a while but was only maybe a few times a week then I moved to every night.

I have been doing only this for 2+ months to fix my barrier but My skin seems to be getting worse texture, very bad clogged pores, red and tight. And everything seems to irritate my skin.

I thought this cleanser cleaned really well but maybe it’s been stripping my skin this whole time?

What cleanser is more gentle to this and won’t break me out? I’m about to just give up on skincare entirely and do caveman

This am I was driving my husbands car (our only car right now). There was something in the front seat blocking the passenger mirror and I couldn’t move it while park in the garage because our garage is very small.

I was rushing to an appointment and tried to pull out of the garage and broke the passenger mirror. My husband comes running into the garage, exams it, throws the broken piece angrily on the floor then storms inside without saying anything.

I get home several hours later and he says in a ton that clearly shows frustration with me “we need to have a debrief about your incident”.

We started having our “debrief” and he’s makes me walk him through every step of pulling out, asks questions, then explains to me how to pull out of the garage. This is AFTER I APOLOGIZED, own my mistake, and said how I’d be better. I walked him through every step and said my mistake was rushing and not taking 3 seconds to drive properly. He said that was not good enough and make me walk through how I will back out in the future (every detail).

I got frustrated and told him I felt patronized like a child about to be grounded. He said I’m projecting and he’s not doing anything wrong and that I have an ego. He yelled that than stormed off.

I think he’s responding this was due to the cost stress associated with fixing it.

Question: how to I handle this situation while remaining respectful of him? I don’t want to be disrespectful but I do not want to be treated like this for a one time mistake especially after I apologized and said how I’d do better.

Baby 11 months old sleep trained using extinction since 4 months.

Just started standing and screaming for every sleep. Right now they are going on 30 minutes.

3/4/4 is schedule was 3/3.5/4 maybe they are overtired?

Idk what to do! Do I just leave them? Tonight they are getting 11.5+ of awake time because of the screaming

What are the average sleep needs in a 24 hour period and wake windows for an 11 month old?

I googled it and it’s all over the place from like 11-16 hours wtf