Broke up with partner and need advice on how they handled date times.
My partner Jasper was not great about time management in any aspect of his life. However; one of the main reasons I broke up with them, was because whenever we had a date, they would consistently be late. Like 20-30 min late. Sometimes even an hour and 1/2 late.
And the reason he would give, is because either his friends or his wife or his wife’s partner would call him and would need him to do them favors such as fix the car, or pick up something at the store, or go grab something from his friends house, or a myriad of other excuses.
I never felt like a priority on date nights. And now I’m doubting myself, as one does, because I am thinking, is this a valid reason among other reasons such as lack of communication to break up with someone. And yes I have tried to communicate with him about these issues but the lack of time management and lack of communication among other issues remain the same.
Edit: thank you all so much! I knew deep in my heart it was the right thing to do and just seeing it from strangers on Reddit helped so much! I feel at peace with my decision and now I can happily move on!!