be real with yourself

be real with yourself

if you’re someone who tends to let doubt get to them, and find it hard to be stay in an identity/story. try a different approach to it. talk to yourself as if you were talking to someone who’s being very delusional lol.

for example, if you’re affirming that you have a great relationship and they show up perfectly for you but still identify as if it’s not, still assuming they don’t love you, care about you or want to be with you, talk to yourself as if you’re being delusional because YOU ARE.

drop that character role that you’re playing, drop that storyline and snap yourself out of it.

put yourself in check

instead of letting those doubts dominate you, dominate them instead. i mean granted, you can just ignore them but like i said, this is for people who finds it hard to do that.

so if you find yourself feeding into unfavorable thoughts, i’ll continue using my example from above

try approaching it like this, the same way you’ll talk to someone who’s again, being delusional.

“why are you pretending like they aren’t madly in love with you? they literally worship you, just stop it”

“you know that person wants to be with you, let’s not play stupid”

if someone is arguing with you that a car is red but the car isn’t red at all, it’s actually white but they keep on arguing with you saying that it’s red, it’s like “that car is literally white. are you okay?” you’ll be pretty damn confused on why they even think that, and you know you’re right and that they’re wrong.

in my experience this is what works best for me. it literally demands you to drop that old identity/story right then and there. it stops the victim narrative and with resonating with an unfavorable story/identity by treating it as what it is, bs. keep it real with yourself and tell yourself to stop being delusional. you already have it and it already is, you already are.

stop treating your doubts like they are deep, profound truths. they’re not. shut it down, it’s complete bs and if you have to firmly snap yourself out of it to remind yourself that it’s complete bs then do that.

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u/amourdiior — 1 day ago

be real with yourself

be real with yourself

if you’re someone who tends to let doubt get to them, and find it hard to be stay in an identity/story. try a different approach to it. talk to yourself as if you were talking to someone who’s being very delusional lol.

for example, if you’re affirming that you have a great relationship and they show up perfectly for you but still identify as if it’s not, still assuming they don’t love you, care about you or want to be with you, talk to yourself as if you’re being delusional because YOU ARE.

drop that character role that you’re playing, drop that storyline and snap yourself out of it.

put yourself in check

instead of letting those doubts dominate you, dominate them instead. i mean granted, you can just ignore them but like i said, this is for people who finds it hard to do that.

so if you find yourself feeding into unfavorable thoughts, i’ll continue using my example from above

try approaching it like this, the same way you’ll talk to someone who’s again, being delusional.

“why are you pretending like they aren’t madly in love with you? they literally worship you, just stop it”

“you know that person wants to be with you, let’s not play stupid”

if someone is arguing with you that a car is red but the car isn’t red at all, it’s actually white but they keep on arguing with you saying that it’s red, it’s like “that car is literally white. are you okay?” you’ll be pretty damn confused on why they even think that, and you know you’re right and that they’re wrong.

in my experience this is what works best for me. it literally demands you to drop that old identity/story right then and there. it stops the victim narrative and with resonating with an unfavorable story/identity by treating it as what it is, bs. keep it real with yourself and tell yourself to stop being delusional. you already have it and it already is, you already are.

stop treating your doubts like they are deep, profound truths. they’re not. shut it down, it’s complete bs and if you have to firmly snap yourself out of it to remind yourself that it’s complete bs then do that.

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u/amourdiior — 1 day ago

friendly reminder

you claim to know that you're limitless, but do you actually understand what that means? why limit your experience to human-made rules when consciousness itself is limitless?

you are consciousness. you are limitless.

the thing is, everyone has their own assumptions on what is possible. for example, someone can see waking up to a completely different appearance change as possible and think, “of course it can happen. why the hell would it not?” while someone else thinks, “no, that can’t happen, things like that take time.”

one is thinking limited. the other is thinking limitless. and those assumptions are exactly what makes their specific experiences.
understand that you are limitless by default because you are pure consciousness. you’re just in a human body at the moment, experiencing. but ultimately, you are just infinite consciousness.

so what does that mean?

it means you are not bound to what you’ve been taught your entire life on what is “realistic” or “possible.” you choose what’s realistic and possible for you. as infinite consciousness, there is nothing and no one that can ever tell you that you’re wrong. you can only ever be right in your reality. whatever it is, you are always right, and reality reflects that because it’s you. it is you experiencing you.

so who’s telling you it’s impossible besides yourself?

you can say, “well, it never happened for me, so it is impossible.” okay, well, the 3d is just a byproduct of who you’re being and accepting as true. so if you’re identifying yourself as someone that something is impossible for, then guess what? if you’re accepting that something is impossible for you, then guess what?

so again, who is telling you that something is impossible besides yourself?

drop all that limited, “unrealistic,” and “impossible” bs for good. everything is all the damn same. the only difference is you labeling certain things as hard or impossible, implying a struggle that doesn’t have to be there. it shouldn’t be there because you are limitless.
from now on, accept the fact that you are the limitless being you’ve always been. accept the fact that anything is possible if you say it is. accept the fact that you are the only one who sets the rules.

knowing that you are the only one who has the rule book in your own reality... what are you choosing to subscribe to? what are you choosing as realistic and possible for you?

there are no limits. everything is possible.

that dream car? very possible. you already have it.
financial freedom? very possible. you already have it.
that relationship, lifestyle, literally whatever it is... very possible.

all because you chose not to put limits on a limitless being. you chose to not to put restrictions on yourself and chose freedom.

this is your reality, you set the rules so it’s as easy as you make it.

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u/amourdiior — 20 days ago

friendly reminder

you claim to know that you're limitless, but do you actually understand what that means? why limit your experience to human-made rules when consciousness itself is limitless?

you are consciousness. you are limitless.

the thing is, everyone has their own assumptions on what is possible. for example, someone can see waking up to a completely different appearance change as possible and think, “of course it can happen. why the hell would it not?” while someone else thinks, “no, that can’t happen, things like that take time.”

one is thinking limited. the other is thinking limitless. and those assumptions are exactly what makes their specific experiences.
understand that you are limitless by default because you are pure consciousness. you’re just in a human body at the moment, experiencing. but ultimately, you are just infinite consciousness.

so what does that mean?

it means you are not bound to what you’ve been taught your entire life on what is “realistic” or “possible.” you choose what’s realistic and possible for you. as infinite consciousness, there is nothing and no one that can ever tell you that you’re wrong. you can only ever be right in your reality. whatever it is, you are always right, and reality reflects that because it’s you. it is you experiencing you.

so who’s telling you it’s impossible besides yourself?

you can say, “well, it never happened for me, so it is impossible.” okay, well, the 3d is just a byproduct of who you’re being and accepting as true. so if you’re identifying yourself as someone that something is impossible for, then guess what? if you’re accepting that something is impossible for you, then guess what?

so again, who is telling you that something is impossible besides yourself?

drop all that limited, “unrealistic,” and “impossible” bs for good. everything is all the damn same. the only difference is you labeling certain things as hard or impossible, implying a struggle that doesn’t have to be there. it shouldn’t be there because you are limitless.
from now on, accept the fact that you are the limitless being you’ve always been. accept the fact that anything is possible if you say it is. accept the fact that you are the only one who sets the rules.

knowing that you are the only one who has the rule book in your own reality... what are you choosing to subscribe to? what are you choosing as realistic and possible for you?

there are no limits. everything is possible.

that dream car? very possible. you already have it.
financial freedom? very possible. you already have it.
that relationship, lifestyle, literally whatever it is... very possible.

all because you chose not to put limits on a limitless being. you chose to not to put restrictions on yourself and chose freedom.

this is your reality, you set the rules so it’s as easy as you make it.

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u/amourdiior — 20 days ago

friendly reminder

you claim to know that you're limitless, but do you actually understand what that means? why limit your experience to human-made rules when consciousness itself is limitless?

you are consciousness. you are limitless.

the thing is, everyone has their own assumptions on what is possible. for example, someone can see waking up to a completely different appearance change as possible and think, “of course it can happen. why the hell would it not?” while someone else thinks, “no, that can’t happen, things like that take time.”

one is thinking limited. the other is thinking limitless. and those assumptions are exactly what makes their specific experiences.
understand that you are limitless by default because you are pure consciousness. you’re just in a human body at the moment, experiencing. but ultimately, you are just infinite consciousness.

so what does that mean?

it means you are not bound to what you’ve been taught your entire life on what is “realistic” or “possible.” you choose what’s realistic and possible for you. as infinite consciousness, there is nothing and no one that can ever tell you that you’re wrong. you can only ever be right in your reality. whatever it is, you are always right, and reality reflects that because it’s you. it is you experiencing you.

so who’s telling you it’s impossible besides yourself?

you can say, “well, it never happened for me, so it is impossible.” okay, well, the 3d is just a byproduct of who you’re being and accepting as true. so if you’re identifying yourself as someone that something is impossible for, then guess what? if you’re accepting that something is impossible for you, then guess what?

so again, who is telling you that something is impossible besides yourself?

drop all that limited, “unrealistic,” and “impossible” bs for good. everything is all the damn same. the only difference is you labeling certain things as hard or impossible, implying a struggle that doesn’t have to be there. it shouldn’t be there because you are limitless.
from now on, accept the fact that you are the limitless being you’ve always been. accept the fact that anything is possible if you say it is. accept the fact that you are the only one who sets the rules.

knowing that you are the only one who has the rule book in your own reality... what are you choosing to subscribe to? what are you choosing as realistic and possible for you?

there are no limits. everything is possible.

that dream car? very possible. you already have it.
financial freedom? very possible. you already have it.
that relationship, lifestyle, literally whatever it is... very possible.

all because you chose not to put limits on a limitless being. you chose to not to put restrictions on yourself and chose freedom.

this is your reality, you set the rules so it’s as easy as you make it.

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u/amourdiior — 20 days ago

just deciding is easier than you think

when you make a decision, you are shifting to a reality where it is already true. meaning it already is, already. emphasis on ALREADY!!
(i cannot stress that enough lol.)

if this isn’t something you can fully grasp, let me help make it easier for you to understand.

first of all,

there are infinite of realities simultaneously existing now, more than you could ever fathom. it is literally never ending, it never ever stops. not at a million, not at a billion, it just keeps going forever and ever. legit infinite potential. this is why people say they are limitless because there IS NO LIMIT. you just happen to be in a reality where you don’t have it, no big deal though because all it takes is a decision. then boom, you have it.

not because you “changed” your current reality. but simply because you shifted into a different one, just like you shifted into a different reality when you decided to wear a pink shirt today instead of white. just like how you shifted realities when you ate a strawberry yogurt instead of a blueberry one this morning. the thing is, you are quite literally shifting realities with EVERY decision you make consciously or not, you still are.

once you decide something, in that moment, you have already shifted into a reality where it’s true. many of you just don’t stay in the identity of the person who already has it. your DOMINANT identity is what matters. you cannot constantly switch between two states, and if you aren’t disciplined enough to stay firm in your decision, the state you are most familiar with (state of “lack”) is the state you’ll dominantly identity from.

and this is why i made sure to drill in your head that there are infinite, infinite, INFINITE realities.
if you think it’s impossible, then you are thinking like a fool lol and i mean that with love, but seriously open up your eyes already!! i’m sure you heard this a million times that you are quite literally a limitless being. all you are doing is selecting which realities you prefer to experience by making a decision. just like you decided to post a selfie on your story last night, just like you decided to send a friend a tiktok earlier.

deciding doesn’t have to be this “big deal” it’s really as simple as the examples i gave you, they all lead back to a decision. you are the only one categorizing it as “big” or “small” but it is all the exact same. you made a choice, you stuck to it.

if you ever picked a character you liked in the game and played with it then congratulations, you know exactly how to stick with a decision.

ever liked a song so much you added it to your playlist and it’s still there? then congratulations, you know exactly how to stick with a decision.

see how easy it is? it’s THAT simple. it’s as easy as you make it!!! ever since i really simplified it, i swear i’ve been on cloud nine.

going back real quick to the part where i mentioned staying disciplined enough to stay firm in your decision, that means no matter what a decision is a DECISION. you said it is this way so that’s what it is, regardless of what things seems like, regardless of how you feel, regardless of anything.

i just wanted to simplify things in the way that made “just deciding” a million times easier for me to grasp and hopefully you guys too if you haven’t already!

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u/amourdiior — 26 days ago

just deciding is easier than you think

when you make a decision, you are shifting to a reality where it is already true. meaning it already is, already. emphasis on ALREADY!!
(i cannot stress that enough lol.)

if this isn’t something you can fully grasp, let me help make it easier for you to understand.

first of all,

there are infinite of realities simultaneously existing now, more than you could ever fathom. it is literally never ending, it never ever stops. not at a million, not at a billion, it just keeps going forever and ever. legit infinite potential. this is why people say they are limitless because there IS NO LIMIT. you just happen to be in a reality where you don’t have it, no big deal though because all it takes is a decision. then boom, you have it.

not because you “changed” your current reality. but simply because you shifted into a different one, just like you shifted into a different reality when you decided to wear a pink shirt today instead of white. just like how you shifted realities when you ate a strawberry yogurt instead of a blueberry one this morning. the thing is, you are quite literally shifting realities with EVERY decision you make consciously or not, you still are.

once you decide something, in that moment, you have already shifted into a reality where it’s true. many of you just don’t stay in the identity of the person who already has it. your DOMINANT identity is what matters. you cannot constantly switch between two states, and if you aren’t disciplined enough to stay firm in your decision, the state you are most familiar with (state of “lack”) is the state you’ll dominantly identity from.

and this is why i made sure to drill in your head that there are infinite, infinite, INFINITE realities.
if you think it’s impossible, then you are thinking like a fool lol and i mean that with love, but seriously open up your eyes already!! i’m sure you heard this a million times that you are quite literally a limitless being. all you are doing is selecting which realities you prefer to experience by making a decision. just like you decided to post a selfie on your story last night, just like you decided to send a friend a tiktok earlier.

deciding doesn’t have to be this “big deal” it’s really as simple as the examples i gave you, they all lead back to a decision. you are the only one categorizing it as “big” or “small” but it is all the exact same. you made a choice, you stuck to it.

if you ever picked a character you liked in the game and played with it then congratulations, you know exactly how to stick with a decision.

ever liked a song so much you added it to your playlist and it’s still there? then congratulations, you know exactly how to stick with a decision.

see how easy it is? it’s THAT simple. it’s as easy as you make it!!! ever since i really simplified it, i swear i’ve been on cloud nine.

going back real quick to the part where i mentioned staying disciplined enough to stay firm in your decision, that means no matter what a decision is a DECISION. you said it is this way so that’s what it is, regardless of what things seems like, regardless of how you feel, regardless of anything.

i just wanted to simplify things in the way that made “just deciding” a million times easier for me to grasp and hopefully you guys too if you haven’t already!

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u/amourdiior — 26 days ago

just deciding is easier than you think

when you make a decision, you are shifting to a reality where it is already true. meaning it already is, already. emphasis on ALREADY!!
(i cannot stress that enough lol.)

if this isn’t something you can fully grasp, let me help make it easier for you to understand.

first of all,

there are infinite of realities simultaneously existing now, more than you could ever fathom. it is literally never ending, it never ever stops. not at a million, not at a billion, it just keeps going forever and ever. legit infinite potential. this is why people say they are limitless because there IS NO LIMIT. you just happen to be in a reality where you don’t have it, no big deal though because all it takes is a decision. then boom, you have it.

not because you “changed” your current reality. but simply because you shifted into a different one, just like you shifted into a different reality when you decided to wear a pink shirt today instead of white. just like how you shifted realities when you ate a strawberry yogurt instead of a blueberry one this morning. the thing is, you are quite literally shifting realities with EVERY decision you make consciously or not, you still are.

once you decide something, in that moment, you have already shifted into a reality where it’s true. many of you just don’t stay in the identity of the person who already has it. your DOMINANT identity is what matters. you cannot constantly switch between two states, and if you aren’t disciplined enough to stay firm in your decision, the state you are most familiar with (state of “lack”) is the state you’ll dominantly identity from.

and this is why i made sure to drill in your head that there are infinite, infinite, INFINITE realities.
if you think it’s impossible, then you are thinking like a fool lol and i mean that with love, but seriously open up your eyes already!! i’m sure you heard this a million times that you are quite literally a limitless being. all you are doing is selecting which realities you prefer to experience by making a decision. just like you decided to post a selfie on your story last night, just like you decided to send a friend a tiktok earlier.

deciding doesn’t have to be this “big deal” it’s really as simple as the examples i gave you, they all lead back to a decision. you are the only one categorizing it as “big” or “small” but it is all the exact same. you made a choice, you stuck to it.

if you ever picked a character you liked in the game and played with it then congratulations, you know exactly how to stick with a decision.

ever liked a song so much you added it to your playlist and it’s still there? then congratulations, you know exactly how to stick with a decision.

see how easy it is? it’s THAT simple. it’s as easy as you make it!!! ever since i really simplified it, i swear i’ve been on cloud nine.

going back real quick to the part where i mentioned staying disciplined enough to stay firm in your decision, that means no matter what a decision is a DECISION. you said it is this way so that’s what it is, regardless of what things seems like, regardless of how you feel, regardless of anything.

i just wanted to simplify things in the way that made “just deciding” a million times easier for me to grasp and hopefully you guys too if you haven’t already!

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u/amourdiior — 26 days ago