u/annaamarieeeee

I’ve started trying to put myself out there more and try and make more female friends. I met one lady who introduced me to another lady and we all started hanging out! I understood they went back and were reconnecting but it started to feel like it was less of a trio and more them two. Then over time, they started hanging out separately and going to places we talked abt in the chat. One weekend we were supposed to go out for drinks and when I asked for the time neither responded until abt 40 min before the scheduled time but they were already getting ready together. I addressed it w my one friend and how it landed weirdly and came off wrong and she apologized and said that wasn’t her intention. This past weekend, we’re talking again and she asks if I want to go somewhere but then said she was taking her dog to the doctors. I had already told her I was free earlier but was more worried abt her dog. I didn’t think she was still going. She never brought it up again then I get on social media and they’re at the club. I told her how it landed for me and that it was strange behavior and she basically said she did her part and asked but the other girl and her were able to schedule and ride together and the other girl didn’t even respond in the chat abt going.

I tried putting myself out there and it was nice while it lasted but I’d rather just be alone. I don’t want to continue seeing them out or doing stuff bc once might be a mistake .. but twice? Is it wrong to just unfollow them and remove myself from the chat?

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I was going through a rough period of time in my life and didn’t have a good support circle to help me through it. I’ve been putting myself out there and rebuilding my life socially, emotionally, and mentally and have been having a time. I met a girl a few months ago and we really hit it off and started going out together more. Then she reconnected with a friend from college and started adding her to our plans. I genuinely didn’t mind bc I enjoy hanging out with them both and we’ve had a lot of fun together.

However in the past I’ve struggled heavily with friends, specifically group friendships bc from my experience, i get left out. I poured a lot of energy into people who just didn’t pour back and I’m working on it. Im super happy I met them but over the past few months have started to feel kind of sad bc they text and go out w each other separately. Like we’ll go out together one day and then the next they go out together. I know they’ve known each other longer but it kind of makes me sad bc why didn’t you guys invite me? Or when we’re together I’m hearing things the other girl already heard about.. like awe why not tell me too? Ever since the other girl was added to the mix me and my friend haven’t hung out 1:1 and text less vs in the group chat.
I guess I’m struggling to try and find my place? Idk if I should keep extending 1:1 invites or just leave it in a group setting. I know I can’t ask but I wonder why they don’t ask me to hang out too if we have such a good time together

I was going through a rough period of time in my life and didn’t have a good support circle to help me through it. I’ve been putting myself out there and rebuilding my life socially, emotionally, and mentally and have been having a time. I met a girl a few months ago and we really hit it off and started going out together more. Then she reconnected with a friend from college and started adding her to our plans. I genuinely didn’t mind bc I enjoy hanging out with them both and we’ve had a lot of fun together.

However in the past I’ve struggled heavily with friends, specifically group friendships bc from my experience, i get left out. I poured a lot of energy into people who just didn’t pour back and I’m working on it. Im super happy I met them but over the past few months have started to feel kind of sad bc they text and go out w each other separately. Like we’ll go out together one day and then the next they go out together. I know they’ve known each other longer but it kind of makes me sad bc why didn’t you guys invite me? Or when we’re together I’m hearing things the other girl already heard about.. like awe why not tell me too? Ever since the other girl was added to the mix me and my friend haven’t hung out 1:1 and text less vs in the group chat.
I guess I’m struggling to try and find my place? Idk if I should keep extending 1:1 invites or just leave it in a group setting. I know I can’t ask but I wonder why they don’t ask me to hang out too if we have such a good time together