u/anonymous_human_help

Olá.

Tenho uma empresa à venda e um possível comprador quer comprar, mas tem uma proposta estranha:

O interessado quer que eu peça um empréstimo em nome da empresa, ainda enquanto está em meu nome. O valor desse empréstimo é o montante pelo qual acordei vender a empresa. Uma vez pedido o empréstimo, levanto o dinheiro para mim e passo a empresa para o comprador.

Porque é que o comprador não pode pedir um préstimo ele mesmo? Porque é que quer usar a empresa que ainda não é dele para isso? Que problemas podem daí advir se o fizer? Leiria assumir a dívida? E se ele não puder pagar, vêm atrás de mim, enquanto antiga dona? Qual é a vantagem para ele?

I (37F) asked for a divorce because my husband (37M) has never supported me through illness, pregnancy recovery, work, or taking care of our young child. When he is at home—which is only once or twice a month—he loses control and can be aggressive with our child, for example putting him on top of a wardrobe, hitting him without trying other approaches (even when I suggest alternatives), and even biting him “to teach him a lesson.”

I don’t receive any emotional support. We split finances 50/50, but I’m the one who handles school, doctor’s appointments, and everything else.

When I asked for a divorce, he suddenly said he realized he loves me and that he hadn’t known it before, which is why he didn’t treat me well. I don’t believe that.

But…

We are still living together while we sort out the paperwork. We continue to attend events with our child as a family. When I see him acting like a normal, caring person, I start to question whether I’m giving up on the idea of a family where both parents and the child stay together. I worry about how this will affect my child, and whether I should go back on my decision and stay in the marriage—especially since things are a bit better now that he has stopped trying to touch me or invade my personal space all the time.

Could we live like this?