What are the best things I could do to help my wife?

My wife has been going through pero menopause for a few months now and it's changed her to the point our relationship is really damaged.

She can't stand the way I look, the way I talk or anything related to me, and she's starting to give up on our relationship.

I want to help her but I'm a bit overwhelmed by all this. I'm a bit scared to talk to her about it because of how fed up she is with everything. I feel like I'm living with a wild lioness, ready to shred me to pieces if I happen to breathe too loud.

What are the things I could do to ease her day-to-day life? I really want to help her but sometimes I feel like this rollercoaster has nowhere to go but into a wall.

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u/anr4jc — 24 hours ago
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Audient iD4 + Audio Technica AT2020 : close to no direct monitoring

Hi all,

I just got an Audient iD4 to replace an old Yamaha AG03. I'm puzzled by one thing: I can't seem to have a proper direct monitoring. Even with the "monitor mix" knob turned all the way to the "input" setting, I just can't hear my own voice. On the AG03 I was able to properly hear myself but not on the iD4.

Is there something I should check?

Current setup:

  • Audient iD4 - connected directly to my motherboard w/ a USB-C cable
  • Audio Technica AT2020 w/ XLR cable
  • Phantom power ON
  • Beyerdynamics DT 990 Pro headphones

Also, it seems the input gain is pretty low until it saturates abruptly, is that normal?

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u/anr4jc — 1 month ago

Je suis au Leclerc de ma ville pour faire quelques courses, et j'ai besoin de me brancher aux bornes mises à disposition. Manque de bol, toutes les places sont occupées par des voitures thermiques. Je précise qu'il y a des places disponibles ailleurs dans le parking, mais celles-ci ont l'avantage d'être juste en face de l'entrée du supermarché.

Vous faîtes quoi dans ce cas-là ?

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u/anr4jc — 4 months ago