Is anyone else absolutely obsessed with cuddles?

With family and friends I don't particularly like physical affection. With strangers or acquaintances I generally dislike being touched. But with romantic partners I really love to cuddle, it's excessive, I never have enough of it, I need it often to be happy.

And when I'm in love with someone who isn't a partner, I constantly fantasize about cuddling with them, it brings me so much joy. I know about love languages and mine is definitely physical touch but my absolute favorite is cuddling, before kissing or holding hands and obviously I much prefer cuddling to sex, like a billion times better.

Can anyone relate?

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u/atenea1984 — 14 hours ago

I am hyperromantic

I am virtually always in love with or have a crush on someone. It can be anyone with a personality (or my perception of it) that I find attractive. Men, women, all types of appearances, younger, older, friends, coworkers, celebrities, YouTubers, even a few times fictional characters.

Most of the time I don't even need my feelings to be reciprocated, as I enjoy the experience of being in love in itself. It gives me joy, comfort and meaning. I have had several stable relationships, it's just that when I don't have one and I don't want one, I always have some romantic interest. In the few time periods I don't have any, I feel bored and like something it's missing, it's almost unnatural to me.

No it's not limerence before anyone suggests it, nor is something that makes me suffer, it mostly makes me happy, my only problem with it is the embarrassment.

I feel so different and weird for being like this and often I feel embarrassed about it, I don't know why. Like it's somehow wrong or pathetic or childish to be so centered on romantic love (I'm over 35).

If anyone can relate please let me know, I would appreciate it

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u/atenea1984 — 14 hours ago
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Does anyone else fall in love extremely often?

I hope someone here can relate because sometimes I feel so alone and so weird about this. Please be kind with your replies, I'm vulnerable right now..42F btw.

I am virtually always in love with or have a crush on someone. It can be anyone with a personality (or my perception of it) that I find attractive. Men, women, all types of appearances, younger, older, friends, coworkers, celebrities, YouTubers, even a few times fictional characters.

Most of the time I don't even need my feelings to be reciprocated, as I enjoy the experience of being in love in itself It gives me joy, comfort and meaning. I have had several stable relationships, it's just that when I don't have one and I don't want one, I always have some romantic interest. In the few time periods I don't have one, I feel bored and like something it's missing, it's almost unnatural to me.

I feel so different and weird for being like this and often I feel embarrassed about it, I don't know why. Like it's somehow wrong or pathetic or childish to be so centered on romantic love.

If someone can relate or has some words of comfort I would really appreciate it

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u/atenea1984 — 12 days ago

Looking for graphic adventure games recommendations on Android or Switch Lite

Hi everyone. I'm looking for recommendations on classic point and click graphic adventure games that are available for Android or Nintendo Switch Lite.

Something that doesn't require a lot of visual-spatial skills to solve the puzzles, as I'm bad at those 😅 Also nothing platform-like, where you have to jump in the exact moment etc.

Some examples of videogames I have liked, for reference, are Fran Bow, Little Misfortune, You.Me. Hell (Biscuit Placebo), the Rusty Lake series, Blue Bird of Happiness (Odencat).

Thanks in advance for any suggestions.

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u/atenea1984 — 24 days ago