u/atreeonthemove

It is the first time I'd be travelling utterly alone, I want to spend 3 weeks to a month with the goal of having mental clarity and peace, I work remotely, all I need is nature, a gym, sim card and data (as I won't be using wifi of the accomodation) and a grocery store and overall a place that is relatively safe for women. I will be staying in a single room hotel or studio as I do not want to share the accomodation. I don't want to be in the middle of the influencers hub and parties but also I don't want complete isolation. So I am thinking Bali or Vietnam or Malaysia, penang.

Is 2000$ enough or I need more for a month.

If you can recommend other places within the same range of expenses, pls go ahead, thanks.

Help me understand the point of anon reviews left by students.

Does it help you adjust your approach?

Does it motivate you?

Can it create resentment?

Does it make you feel less human?

Does it make you wonder what happened and which class went wrong?

What happened to communication to iterate and progress better?

Do you treat it as if it doesn't exist and just keep doing your job?

I have a fullfilling job where I can actually see positive impact, change and progress and me being part of it is such a precious feeling I am grateful for but the thing is I realized this can be a huge mistake as I am paying the price of dedicating a lot of my time and energy to work, I have missed out on the social and personal aspect of my life, like my day is all about work and few hobbies and on the weekends I may catch up with a friend or family. I feel I may regret this in ten yrs but also I feel this is normal and we are all caught up in it, I dunno what to do. With the instability in the market yet how passionate I naturally am in anything I do, I have a strong voice in the back of my head telling my I should never let anything have such a strong impact on me. At the end of the day I get a mix of feelings of gratitude and complete void and it makes me wonder how both can exist at the same time. If you have been there and could tell your old self some tips, what would they be?

I am new to this, I have my first appointment in two days but I looked it up and saw a lot of people suffer from hypermpigmentation and redness, looks a bit severe esp on face, cheeks, jawbones and chin. So should I keep that in mind if I am starting this journey.

(A wuick brief I did lhr years ago and it broke me out bad all over my face and the hair got thicker too, I spent years to clear up my skin)

Which is she is acting exactly in the negative way she used to comment about our old friend, she is doing every thing the other friend did that made us keep distance from her, now two yrs forward she is acting the same, every time I meet her I feel drained afterwards, sadly. I care about her. But she thinks she is the only one who is struggling and she complains about every thing, happening and missing and these can not be changed nor fixed all the time and call it venting, last time I met her, she said "hi. How are you? I said good and you" then she said " I feel like I want to kms" who starts a conversation like that, It never ends and I on the other hand do not like to complain about my life as a person in general so they think it is perfect, and start indirectly comparing. I would like to hear some ways to tell her the truth without hurting her feelings or shutting her down because she is also sensitive and she says I make her feel better and I always push her forward but lately she has been draining me tbh.

A lot of fears of ending up with the wrong person?

How do you navigate these fears.

Do you feel like you are running out of oxygen when you can't get any time completely alone or you normal

When you can not do that, how do you regulate cause it makes me stressed and easily irritable and genuinely drained.