I have written the test. Interviewed twice. Submitted documents including payslip, CV, and degree certificates. Is it an implicit way of saying “you are the one?” Or just another documents collected?
I once dated a dude from Thrissur when I was in college. The relationship lasted 2-2.5 years with families involved. The guy was a literal loser.
Didn’t graduate. Didn’t find a good job. Mostly unemployed. But his attitude? Lol. Bought a bike and a car with EMI that he can’t even afford to pay. He once got into some random job, and cheated on me with a colleague. I broke up a couple of months later as I wanted to move on while being the relationship. Stayed long enough to turn the resentment into disgust.
Anyways, he still apparently is unemployed or idk, and idgaf and I honestly only wish filth for him.
He absconds from paying EMI and this bastard put my name as nominee. Now the EMI people call me every now and then. Last time they called I lost it. I unblocked this loser and calmly asks to pay off his EMI and that his finances and debt aren’t my concern and its for him to figure out.
As usual he lies. Denies. Yells. Hangs up. I also remember him swiping my credit card for 8K to fix his bloody second hand car he bought to show off the status he doesn’t even have. I mean for someone who doesn’t have a personality, a job or even a degree, a car is good to have status among his little boys yeah? Yeah during that time I asked you had withdrawn money please pay and this motherfucker of a cunt straight up denied on my face. And I had to pay it off with my pocket money. Mind you, I was still in college.
I wanna sue for him causing mental distress honestly, cause he was verbally and emotionally abusive throughout. Its been two years and still triggers me. He has the audacity to randomly call me once to “ask my whereabouts”. He is so disgustingly ugly dude.
Do avoidant guys ever land a woman who loves them loudly and fiercely and they absolutely enjoy the attention.
Like they love knowing a woman like that loves them. And when she asks for accountability, he is done.
Do they regret it later? Why do they do this? Do they go back?
I live in Chattarpur in a fuckall locality as I only saw the location in the evening and had to fix a place immediately. I am new to Delhi. The brokers were a scam. The helper who showed me the room hit on me, asking things like “shall I bring some beer” “Isn’t it too much to for one girl to live alone,” the usual creepy comments and I nipped it at the bud. As always, he turned vengeful. Not helping anymore and more.
Then came the owner. There is no clause which says he only takes in cash. He only demands cash, which is troublesome for me to go after work to an ATM for his convenience. Then one night at 2AM, him and his friends decided to do some road work (not public or PWD, just some private bs) and I went down and yelled at the workers “what are you doing? Don’t people want to sleep?” Suddenly the owner’s friend, the typical Delhi goon who wouldn’t mind running you over with a Thar, barged into me and commanded the workers to start working. And I asked the owner please do the work in the morning and he goes “No the work will happen only right now” and I lost my shit and said “Yeh kya backchodi hai?” And the friend almost came to hit me before the owner stopped him.
I am 100% sure the owner is involved in illegal activities and money fraud. I cannot wait to move out. Its so scary to live in Delhi as a woman. Its genuinely exhausting to deal with the type of men this city breeds.