Just Escaped Romance Scam & Saved $1,500

I just escaped from a online/email romance scam that saved me $1,500! I'm 76 years old. No fool like an old fool, right? Grrrrr. It started on a reputable online senior dating service and quickly moved to private emails. For 10 days, "she" and I exchanged more and more romantic messages and made more and more extravagant plans. In my romantic daze, I ignored several "tells" about the scam. Only when she tried an "emergency" from an alleged foreign country and "ASKed" for $1,500 did all my alarm bells go crazy. And I stopped. The "tells" I ignored during my "haze:" luring me to start with pictures of a normal, age-appropriate woman, switching to private emails quickly, sending increasingly provocative pictures and asking me to send pictures in return, "photos" from Istanbul airport where she said she was traveling on business, pictures of what she claimed to be antiques shops that actually came from a web site for an antiques dealer in southern Virginia, etc. When she "shouted" her emergency and asked for money, I was jolted back to reality. It ended when I asked her three times a very simple question so I could send her money by Western Union: name, address and phone number of her hotel. Three times, she dodged a question she could have answered in less than a minute. I called her bluff and she disappeared. I was very lucky. Today, on other subreddits, I've read stories of people who were blackmailed for $2,000 or scammed for $5,000. As you know, it's a worldwide problem. Btw--a bit of humor-I hope-I didn't send any naked pictures--not my overweight, old body! I have reported this scam to the FTC site. I intend to do more research and I'll share it with you as I go. Thank you for reading

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u/b534697r — 3 days ago

Just Escaped Spider Web of Romance Scam

WARNING: I just escaped from the spider web of an online/email romance scam that saved me $1,500! I'm 76 years old and a professional writer. No fool like an old fool, right? Grrrrr. It started on a reputable online senior dating service and quickly moved to private emails. For 10 days, "she" and I exchanged more and more romantic messages and made more and more extravagant plans. In my romantic daze, I ignored several "tells" about the scam. Only when she tried an "emergency" from an alleged foreign country and "ASKed" for $1,500 did all my alarm bells go crazy. And I stopped. The "tells" I ignored during my "haze:" luring me to start with pictures of a normal, age-appropriate woman, switching to private emails quickly, sending increasingly provocative pictures and asking me to send pictures in return, "photos" from Istanbul airport where she said she was traveling on business, pictures of what she claimed to be antiques shops that actually came from a web site for an antiques dealer in southern Virginia, etc. When she "shouted" her emergency and asked for money, I was jolted back to reality. It ended when I asked her three times a very simple question so I could send her money by Western Union: name, address and phone number of her hotel. Three times, she dodged a question she could have answered in less than a minute. I called her bluff and she disappeared. I was very lucky. Today, on other subreddits, I've read stories of people who were blackmailed for $2,000 or scammed for $5,000. As you know, it's a worldwide problem. Btw--a bit of humor-I hope-I didn't send any naked pictures--not my overweight, old body! I have reported this scam to the FTC site. I intend to do more research and I'll share it with you as I go. Thank you for reading.

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u/b534697r — 3 days ago

Just Escaped Spider Web of Romance Scam

WARNING: I just escaped from a online/email romance scam that saved me $1,500! No fool like an old fool, right? Grrrrr. It started on a reputable online senior dating service and quickly moved to private emails. For 10 days, "she" and I exchanged more and more romantic messages and made more and more extravagant plans. In my romantic daze, I ignored several "tells" about the scam. Only when she tried an "emergency" from an alleged foreign country and "ASKed" for $1,500 did all my alarm bells go crazy. And I stopped. Pleae understand, this is not self-promotion; I am trying to warn y'all about how these romance scams work so you can avoid them. Too many our age get caught and are bilked of thousands of dollars. Here are the links to the story on Medium t https://medium.com/@perry62550/a-spider-web-of-deceit-that-captivated-me-for-10-days-67aee8eade21 or Substack at https://conversewithclaude.substack.com/p/a-spider-web-of-deceit-captivated?r=a9nr3 Please share with your friends across your Reddit and other communities. Thank you!!!

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u/b534697r — 4 days ago

Just Evaded Spider Web of Romance Scam

WARNING FOR 50 Plus -- This is my story of how I barely managed to escape a classic online/email romance scam. For 10 days (June 17-June 28), I was caught in a "spider web" of deceit by a sophisticated romance scam over email. But I was one of the lucky ones--I escaped. At first, I ignored several "tells" of the scam because I was in a romantic daze. I leapt every day with my heart into more and more romantic emails. Only when "she" set me up with a fake "emergency" in a foreign country and ASKED for $1,500 to get her home did all my alarm bells go bananas. You can read the gory details at Medium at https://medium.com/@perry62550/a-spider-web-of-deceit-that-captivated-me-for-10-days-67aee8eade21 or Substack at https://conversewithclaude.substack.com/p/a-spider-web-of-deceit-captivated?r=a9nr3 Please do not consider this self-promotion. I'm trying to warn all of you because so many thousands our age fall for these scams! Thank you!

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u/b534697r — 4 days ago

Just Noticed Very Troubling Data

On the right side of my screen, it says that the dating over 50 subreddit has more than 50,000 members. Even the sex over 60 group has thousands. AND the dating over 70 group has about 180? What? Depressing. Should I not bother with Reddit for relationship advice, lead?

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u/b534697r — 1 month ago

Where Are Women 60 to 75?

My first message to this subreddit. The vast majority of people here are in their 50s. Many of the women in their 50s seem to prefer younger men; I know many men in their 50s and 60s do. I don't as I'd have nothing to talk with them about. I'm a 75-yr-old healthy, retired, comfortable male so where are the similar, eligible, interested and interesting women on this subreddit or anywhere at all? I'm not sure what kind of relationship I'm looking for right now. Truly perplexed. I'd appeciate any tips or highly rated sites or sources for introductions to good women from 55-75. Thanks!

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u/b534697r — 1 month ago