u/baeneni

My boyfriend says he just keeps his coworkers company. Should I believe him?

I've been paying for my sister's dorm for ilang years since I started working. I paid for her food when we hang out in general and during her internship. You could say I've spoiled her by giving her cash din when she needs it, like mobile data and load. There were times when I felt like I'm just a walking debit card for her, kasi she cares more about getting the money from me (and my mom din, since we have higher incomes than our dad).

When I was late lang to pick her up and get home after her event, she was frustrated with something that happened during the event, and lashed out kasi bakit late ako to pick her up. She ignored me for 2 months after that, and I felt so offended. I'm leaving out details kasi baka nasa Reddit siya, pero let's say I'm tired from work and she had an injury (prior to the event pa naman).

As someone na tinipid ang sarili para mabayaran yung mga pangangailangan niya, I felt offended na sinigawan ako after that. And now, she shamelessly asks for money from me and never apologized because I was late to pick her up.

To all panganays, how much do you spoil your siblings? Or should you refrain from spoiling or providing too much for them?

Hi! I'm thinking about trying solo travel for the first time and would love to hear your recommendations.

If you have traveled solo around Luzon, Visayas, and Mindanao around this time and season (humid/rainy), where did you feel the safest and had the best experience? (For women, and maybe as a woman).

I'm looking for places that are safe and easy to get around, beginner-friendly for solo travelers, worth visiting even for a weekend, and budget-friendly is a plus!

I would also like to know where you stayed and how to get around. Was it easy for other travelers? What made you love the place?

Open to beaches, mountains, cities, or anywhere with good food and scenery. Thanks so much in advanced!

Got denied kasi at the Package Deposit.