u/bbdotcoke

Couldn’t rlly think of a better title sorry!
So, idk why but whenever I do something that makes me standout at work I regret it later. I’m a closer at my work and I bought a gift for my manager and coworker for their b-days tmr (something small). I left it on the table for them to see when they walk in tmr. I feel so nervous now that I’m home waiting for tmr to come. Idk why but I almost regret doing it now. I don’t really know them since I’m pretty shy, and we don’t interact too much bc im a closer . So, I thought it would be a good way to show them that I appreciate them🫩

Idk why but every time I leave a note for something I just get home and regret it so bad. When I do it in the moment I never think twice. Making this post I see how silly it is.. Which is probably making it hard to convey the level of anxiety I feel
Like I guess I’m scared of being judged? Or even perceived? Scared my coworkers might feel slighted incase they didn’t get them gifts. (Although I included one of my coworkers in it) maybe they’ll feel bad for not getting me anything? I wish I just said happy b-day and called it a day 🫩🫩

We have bins at both entrances for plastic bags, and in the pickup room. All of them just go in the regular trash. I mean we literally tell ppl we recycle them ppl will bring their collections from home to recycle. I feel bad knowing they all think they’re doing a good thing. Do all stores do this?

I tried for a long time. We had issues about communication. That’s honestly all it ever boiled down too. I honestly love him so so so much. We’re definitely co-dependent on each other. I don’t know what to do. We’ve been together since we were 17 and we’re 21. We live together and spend so much time together. I left bc every time we argue he stops treating me with empathy and compassion. He will call me names, cross the line a little more each time. To the point it’s like he doesn’t even see me as a human. I don’t know how to process this.

My friend recently left her bf and she’s doing great. However, she fell out of love with him. She said things feel different and she was sad being with him. But I’m addicted to my ex . When we’re not arguing I love being around him I love having him around. I can’t just make my love disappear.

I know I did the right thing. I shouldn’t be with someone who calls me the B word or tells me to “duck tape that shit on idk” when I’m complaining about needing clean underwear when on my period 🙃. He’s genuinely made so many mean comments to me. I know we can’t fix it. He can’t take back everything he’s said to me
I just wish my brain and my heart were connected. My brain could be like “yo, heart this shit is fucked up, he’s not making us happy let’s not care anymore”

But even now, I just want him . I want him to text me and apologize for his behavior and take accountability and offer to help pay for couples therapy . 😔 i wish i never let our relationship get like this

TLDR; I miss my bf I still love him. I don’t know what to do with my love for him. It all hurts and I guess I’m just looking for reassurance I did the right thing

I just left my boyfriend last night. I really really didn’t want to. I love him so much but he’s been treating worse over time and I reached my breaking point. We tried everything and it didn’t work.

The thing is if he would try I would want to still be with him. I didn’t fall out of love with him. It hasn’t even been 12 hours. I feel a pit in my stomach. I recently lost my mom and losing him too so soon just feels like so much . I feel alone now . How do I make the pit in my stomach go away? How do I stop missing him. How do I feel normal again. We’ve been together for 4 years . We’ve been together since we were like 17. I grew up with him. We were definitely co dependent. I don’t know how to make it be plays how to go from living and spending all our time together, to go to 0 contact

So, to clarify. Our weekly schedule gets posted physically in the room we work in. All of the 8 hours ppl totals say 7.50 instead of 8. I’m confused , because assuming you take your lunch that would put you at 7.30 not 7.50??? And when somone takes a pto day it says 8 instead of 7.50. Is this like this for all stores? (Sorry to make 2 posts in concession)

One of my coworkers said it doesn’t matter if we take out lunch or not, we won’t be paid either way. And that sounds illegal asf. Especially given the fact the only times I don’t take my breaks is when the managers kinda brow beat me into not taking it. Is this true??? ETA: talking about lunch breaks btw our 15s are paid