u/be_yourself2929

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Helo! :) Trying this again, last time I did, i had some lovely conversations, hence holding onto that hope.

I'm probably like some of you all, having tried and being exhausted at matrimony/dating apps. Looking for a genuine connection, and want to take it ahead seriously, im not looking for casual.

More about me below. If you do not like something, please move on, or try to be kind.

I'm a loud feminist, intersectional, taller than average (5'10).

Body type is fat, actively taking care of my health. (I'm not a gym girl though, but thinking of it!). Corporate girl, earning decently to live in Mumbai.

I have explored and would love to keep exploring Mumbai.

I try to keep myself engaged with a lot of interests, and make new friends in this city, i enjoy doing this.

I'm patient, empathetic, introverted until I become an ambivert with you. I give it my all in close friendships, hoping for the same in relationships.

I'd love to speak to people (between 30-40) who don't shy away from being feminists, and are political, and are emotionally mature. Apolitical just simply doesnt work in this world now.

I understand wanting to disconnect from politics/world because it can be a LOT, so the expectation is not to have opinions on every thing, that is very tiring and i get it.

I'm not looking to be a biological parent, however, im open to alternate parenting but this is not mandatory for me. Definitely open to pets :)

Prefer to be in India. Mumbai, Bangalore, Pune would work well as locations, all of these are anyway overcrowded as is but we do best with what we have. I'm not a Delhi or a Chennai soul.

If you are looking for someone similar, who is trying to show up for their friends/family/partner and themselves, who would not mind learning and unlearning things together, maybe travel a bit too, you prefer to keep in touch consistently and learn little things about each other, i would love to chat.

I dont mind moving outside of Reddit eventually, basis mutual comfort only.

PS - Im having to do this unfortunately in this world as a woman.

Please dont send unwarranted stuff on DM.

Please please dont be a creep.

If you think i won't find a partner here, or EVER, good, keep your thoughts to yourself. Il live (and beautiful so!)

Above 40 year/below 30 is a no as well.

Too young kids, please no :)

Reddit really has a sub for everything! So happy to see this sub :) ive been looking for an online professor for a while, i prefer Sunday classes BUT i also travel during some months. I can't take the anxiety of someone who is not flexible and get angry when classes shift. (I've had similar experience before and it left a sour taste).

Would you have any recommendations for someone who needs a flexible schedule?

Friends, i really would love to find a good trustworthy cook for dinner around this area. Been searching for a while now 😔

I stay in an all female flat and will prefer a female cook. I can share more via DMs! Please share if you have some leads 🙏