How to get Mom to Dr for memory test
My mom has very clear issues with her memory. She has for several years and it's declining faster now. She gets very upset (angry, stubborn, shuts down) when this is brought up. I've been trying to get her diagnosed for years so that my dad can get help and support taking care of her, and so that things are in place when we inevitably have to move her into care. I'm in Ontario, Canada. I have PoA and am approved to speak to her doctor on her behalf.
Late last year mom had a MOCA test and her GP referred her to a Geriatric Doctor but somehow things stalled there and the follow up never happened. I spoke with her GP office this week and they said another MOCA test is needed and they'll refer her again.
The problem is she is going to fight tooth and nail over going in for another memory test. How can I approach this? I can't rely on my dad to push this forward, he's afraid of her wrath. I will make it happen but am looking for advice.
Thanks!