A friendly reminder for you beautiful people
I see some self hatred from people regarding their past selves on here. And honestly just a level of cruelty sometimes. I’m 16m postpartum and gained 100lbs from my pregnancy/postpartum and don’t get me wrong, there was a time where I had a lot of hatred and loathing towards myself too. But I treated her baaad.
I just want to take a few minutes to remind all of you absolutely beautiful souls here…
Your past self still carried YOU through moments, experiences, good days, bad days.
Your past self showed up for you when sometimes no one else did.
Your past self didn’t know the right habits yet, and may not have known how their choices were impacting their body. Give them some grace for that. Because YOU LEARNED, you grew, you moved forward better from it.
Your past self would have loved to be shown more love. You can give that to him/her now.
Your past self would be so proud of your present self. What better support system to cheer you on than knowing your past self was rooting for you all along?