Somehow, Loki managed this.

Somehow, Loki managed this.

Madness, I tell you.
Loki is 16 months old and my son is 19 months old. It’s never boring here!

u/blondengineerlady — 11 days ago

I finally got the help I need!!

I was prescribed a mood stabilizer in a seriously high dosage (1500mg), an antipsychotic, and an anti anxiety. This happened when I was newly postpartum because I had postpartum psychosis. Well after a few months, this medication combo became way too strong and I didn’t feel happiness, sexual desire (legit felt asexual), was numb, had the stare, dissociated, and was even having more episodes weirdly enough. I kept telling my psychiatrist and she just kept telling me I ‘need more gratitude’ and after months of this ruining me, I FINALLY saw a new psychiatrist and have been tapering off this hell concoction and going on a new medication.

Today, I felt actual happiness. I finally took a shower and shaved (I haven’t shaved since this started and have neglected myself), and went for a walk with my son and felt joy again. I am so happy I can have the opportunity to be an even better mother (my son has been my priority through this!) and a better version of myself.

Advocate for yourself no matter what 💙

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u/blondengineerlady — 2 months ago
▲ 5 r/keto

I haven’t pooped for going on 3 days. PLEASE help me

I had diarrhea earlier this week entering ketosis, and now I’m constipated af. I take MiraLAX and stool softeners daily so idk why this happened 😭 I know this is a gross question but my doctor is closed until Monday.

Currently chugging coffee with heavy whipping cream and praying with a vape (I don’t even vape, I just know it speeds up digestive stuff and even that’s not working sos)

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u/blondengineerlady — 2 months ago
▲ 135 r/BeforeandAfter+1 crossposts

42lbs down. More confidence, actually do self care now, and feeling better. Long way to go but happy!

I’m on a weight loss journey but also a finding myself and learning to feel beautiful again journey. I had a baby 17 months ago and it hasn’t been an easy ride. This goes deeper than just weight loss - it’s learning to love myself and take care of myself as a woman again. 💙

u/blondengineerlady — 3 months ago

10 week progress and my failed 5mg blip

5mg was hell. 2.5mg is the way for me personally. I have never been so sick. Long way to go!

u/blondengineerlady — 3 months ago
▲ 21 r/PaleMUA

Critique my routine! Im open to any feedback. I want to be pretty lol

I’m a mom to a 17m old who’s had a TON of health issues postpartum - so I’m just now starting to wear makeup again. The health issues aren’t over - but I want to feel pretty damnit!

Products used:

Lancôme skin tint (not sure of shade, Ulta matched me)

Lancôme mascara black

Benefit brow Warm golden blonde

Rare beauty embrace lipstick

Fenty rose latte blush

Is there anything you’d add or change? What are your thoughts?

u/blondengineerlady — 3 months ago
▲ 10 r/Sephora

Can you fellow experts help me blind buy a perfume? I’ll put my whole trust in you lol

I physically can’t make it to a store due to my hypermobility kicking my ass and being a mom to a 17m old. But I still want to feel pretty!!!!

I currently have Good Girl Blush by Caroline Herrera and love it. But I want something that is a contrast to that for when I want a different vibe. I want something that smells sexy, deep, and unique. I don’t want another floral perfume since I already have a light smelling one!

Any recommendations? I’m legit open to anything 🫶

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u/blondengineerlady — 3 months ago

Newly diagnosed. Anyone have bursitis in their knees and hips? PT??

I went to a rheumatologist thinking I had an autoimmune disease… left with a hypermobility and knee and hip bursitis diagnosis.

I’m 17m postpartum and prior to having my kid, I was very muscular and everything was strong so I wasn’t symptomatic. After having my kid? Been a wreck. lol.

They ordered I do physical therapy to help the bursitis and strengthen my body so it can handle movement again.

Did anyone else do PT and what was your outcome?

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u/blondengineerlady — 3 months ago

When does the chewing shit end? It’s everything in sight.

I’ll start by saying I have tried to baby proof and dog proof my house. But no matter what, Loki manages to find SOMETHING to chew up or get into. My pen for work, my baby’s shirts, diapers, wipes, paper towels, my baby’s chair, lord EVERYTHING. We put stuff away the best we can but we don’t have a big house or a ton of storage. It’s like back to back to back too… if he grabs one thing and we take it, he repeats like 6 times.

We get him his own toys, but he destroys them within the day and he’s disinterested in the indestructible ones.

He does this behavior even after running around the yard and playing for 30min or more.

Loki is 14 almost 15 months old. Not fixed (male) per breed guidelines.

When do they grow out of this? PLEASE tell me they grow out of it lol. He is the best dog with my son, and I my forever thankful for that, but I’m just at my wits end with this chewing everything and wanting to be chased with it. Drives me fucking insane lol. I have an autoimmune disease that makes my joints hurt so constantly chasing him is challenging for me. Which is a me problem but it adds to the frustration.

u/blondengineerlady — 3 months ago
▲ 521 r/Zepbound

35lbs down & someone actually called me beautiful in public?!! WIN (322lbs to 286lbs; I’m 5’10)

u/blondengineerlady — 3 months ago
▲ 22 r/keto

Coffee woes

Ive been mixing my keto with a GLP-1 and im down 35lbs in 8 weeks as of today. I’ve been sticking to black coffee but…. I’ve reached my limit lmao.

Does anyone have any suggestions for creamers that taste good still? I know heavy whipping cream is an option and I’ll go to that if that is the best route. Just curious if thoughts on that.

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u/blondengineerlady — 3 months ago
▲ 196 r/Zepbound

My work quarterzip that was too tight to even put on when I got it actually fits now😭 34lbs down in 8 weeks(322lbs-288lbs)

I ordered XXL because they didn’t have any plus size and was praying it would fit. It was so skin tight and small it wouldn’t even go on my body. Now? I’m legit crying and wearing it while I work from home with SO MUCH PRIDE 😭

u/blondengineerlady — 3 months ago

Would you beautiful people be willing to help this 30 year old mom put together a makeup routine/recommend brands?

I hope this is allowed here. If not you can remove my post totally! If allowed — can you help me put together a small kit for work makeup? Im 30, have dry skin, and I’ll include a picture for complexion purposes for products. Even just brands are perfect to recommend too!! I appreciate anything.

My goal is to make a small makeup bag with:

Face

Bronzer (maybe? Idk if it works with my complexion)

Blush

Eyeshadow (a small one preferably like a quad)

mascara

Lipstick (1)

I’m admittedly clueless about makeup (hence why I’m not wearing any in this pic and have no eyebrows) and admire you all a ton bc you have a skill I do not have. 😂

Sorry if this is cringe. I just need help and don’t know who to ask lol.

u/blondengineerlady — 3 months ago
▲ 2 r/Ulta

Thoughts on bareminerals? I’m 30, dry skin and need new makeup!

Have you used it? How do you like it? Is it good for dry skin? (Like the mineral powder)

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u/blondengineerlady — 3 months ago
▲ 212 r/keto

Got a ton of hate in the GLP-1 subreddit for going keto. Why? Help me understand lol

I’m new to keto. I have been doing a weight management program through Virta that pushes keto as their recommended way of eating. Virta prescribes GLP-1 with the goal of helping people find a lasting way of eating with the end goal of going off GLP-1 after reaching goal weight.

I was skeptical at first I won’t lie. But I’ve been actually genuinely enjoying keto and I like how I feel. I have a lot to learn of course, but it led me to wonder this:

  1. Why the anti-keto? Legit people thought I was rage bating doing keto and GLP-1. I truly don’t understand why. Does anyone know?

  2. Does anyone have any advice for keeping this a life long thing? Or does it eventually become natural?

  3. Anyone else here on GLP-1 and do this combo? How do you feel?

I’m 32lbs down in 7 weeks but kind of felt like shit until I started keto and i actually feel sustained and happy now.

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u/blondengineerlady — 3 months ago

Keto and GLP-1!

My new weight loss program takes a low carb high protein approach to their diet plan. And they require monitoring of ketones and glucose. This will be a very new way of eating for me so I would love some suggestions and tips from anyone who does this - and wouldn’t be opposed to some good recipes and treats. :)

Also— this is not an option for me. So I want to open my mind to this way of eating. My insurance requires me to go through this program in particular to get the GLP-1 as they are partnered. And I am a sole provider/working mom supporting a whole family so I can’t do Lily Direct since my insurance makes it so much cheaper 😅 so, looking to make the best of this!!

Any tips, tricks, snacks, recipes, treats, etc are more than welcome here!!!! And kindly, no hate towards GLP-1 or opinions on the medication itself will be acknowledged. I know it’s not everyone’s thing but trust this girl been fat since age 8 😂

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u/blondengineerlady — 3 months ago

Fml I ate 1400 calories in one sitting today because my 2.5mg wore off and I’m waiting for my 5mg from my new provider

After almost 30lbs down and stalling at 293.9 for the last week straight… I caved and ate Chick fil an and went all in when I had it. I was hoping maybe it could help break my stall and confuse my metabolism a bit. Idek. I eat 1400cal a day and I get 47284737284 opinions on how many calories I should be eating. Who knows. WHO KNOWS

Just a post to say - I have no clue what I’m doing. Cheers yall.

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u/blondengineerlady — 3 months ago

Special treat for a special boy

Meet Loki! He’s 14 months old and about 130lbs. He’s the craziest sweetest boy ever and his best friend is a 16 month old little boy (my son)

u/blondengineerlady — 3 months ago