The fastest character development I've ever witnessed💀
You know what happened yesterday? 😭
Let me start from the beginning.
This guy was my college junior. Apparently, he had seen me multiple times in college, but I never really noticed him back then. We never actually met or talked in person. Later, he found me online and started texting me. He always called me "didi," and over time we became good friends.
I've known him for almost 3 years. Last Rakhi, I even invited him to my house, but he couldn't come. He had also asked me a few times to go out for lunch or visit another city, but I was always busy with studies and other work. We would also talk on calls occasionally.
Around 3 weeks ago, he even asked me to be his best friend. I thought, "Sounds fine," and said yes.
Now comes yesterday...
I was resting because I was on my period. Mood swings, cramps... everything was at its peak. He called and asked how I was doing. We were just talking normally, and in the flow of the conversation, I casually mentioned that I was on my period.
Biggest mistake of the day. 💀
At first, his questions were completely normal.
"Does it hurt?"
"Does it last for 7 days?"
Then he said,
"It would've been nice if someone took care of you... like a boyfriend."
I replied,
"Well, obviously it feels nice when someone genuinely cares."
Then he said,
"A hug would've made you feel better, right?"
I said yes.
And suddenly... the conversation took a U-turn that absolutely nobody asked for.
He asked,
"My friend says that sex helps reduce period cramps. Is that true?"
I calmly explained that every woman's body is different and that it's mostly a myth. Even many married women still experience painful cramps.
Instead of understanding, he replied,
"Haven't you tried it?"
At that point, I was already uncomfortable.
Then he asked,
"Can I ask you one more question?"
I said okay, thinking it would be something normal.
Nope.
"Do you ever feel like having sex?"
I immediately set my boundary and told him,
"Why would I tell you about my personal feelings? There are limits to what people should share."
A normal person would've stopped there.
But this guy just wouldn't.
He kept saying,
"Please tell me... come on... just tell me..." again and again.
At this point, his tone had changed so much that I genuinely felt like this guy had smoked something before calling me. 😭 I literally kept wondering, "Bro, what happened to you all of a sudden?"
When I still didn't answer, he started talking about himself. He said that whenever he's alone, he watches adult videos and then asked if I do the same.
I replied again,
"Why would I tell you anything about my private life?"
And guess what?
He STILL continued.
Then he started saying how much he enjoys masturbating and even asked me, "What do you do?"
At that point, my patience officially resigned. 😭
I simply said,
"Brother, I'm not going to have this kind of conversation with you. Bye."
I cut the call.
He called me 3–4 more times.
I didn't answer.
I blocked him everywhere.
Then, that night, this man unlocked a new achievement.
He texted me from a NEW number:
"So... you blocked me? 🥺 Sorry... I don't even know what all I said..."
I blocked that number too.
And in my mind, I was just like...
"Bro, I don't even want to see your face ever again." 💀
The funniest part?
A guy who called me "didi" for 3 years, became my best friend just 3 weeks ago... and managed to destroy every bit of respect in a single phone call.
I'm still trying to process what exactly happened. 😭