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I think I may have experienced some kind of premonition today.

My 28F husband 28M and I both work from home. His grandfather has been in the hospital for the past few months, but today around 11 AM, I suddenly got this overwhelming feeling that something terrible had happened.

I started shaking. Out of nowhere, I felt this intense certainty that his grandfather was going to die and that his mother was grieving. It hit me so hard that I walked into my husband’s office to check on him.

I asked him if he was okay and whether he had heard from his family. He said everything was fine and that he hadn’t gotten any news. Then he asked why I looked so weird.

I told him I had a really bad feeling about his grandfather and his mom. My husband got annoyed and said I was interrupting his work and freaking him out with my “weird stories.” I just told him to take care of himself today and maybe check in with his mother.

Two hours later, his grandfather died.
I don’t know what to think or do about this. It’s not the first time I get a feeling, (I ‘’predicted’’ 2 illnesses and 1 death), but I don’t ‘’know’’ every time someone dies around me…

I think I may have experienced some kind of premonition today, and it honestly scared me.

My husband and I are both 28 and we both work from home. His grandfather has been in the hospital for the past few months, but today around 11 AM, I suddenly got this overwhelming feeling that something terrible had happened.

I started shaking. Out of nowhere, I felt this intense certainty that his grandfather was going to die and that his mother was grieving. It hit me so hard that I walked into my husband’s office to check on him.

I asked him if he was okay and whether he had heard from his family. He said everything was fine and that he hadn’t gotten any news. Then he asked why I looked so weird.

I told him I had a really bad feeling about his grandfather and his mom. My husband got annoyed and said I was interrupting his work and freaking him out with my “weird stories.” I just told him to take care of himself today and maybe check in with his mother.

Two hours later, his grandfather died.
I don’t know what to think about this. It’s not the first time I get a feeling, (I ‘’predicted’’ 2 illnesses and 1 death), but I don’t ‘’know’’ every time someone dies around me…

***UPDATE***
Husband came back from lunch, and surprise, there were many other coworkers. I don’t know why she asked him out this way (on her personal phone, saying it would be just the two of them) instead of a group invite… but she stayed professional, so I don’t care and everything is fine. Sorry for the false alarm!!

***ORIGINAL POST***
He works as a student in a research lab. He got hired 2 months ago with a few other students. They work from home and only see each other through zoom meetings.

Some other student asked him out for lunch. He said yes and is with her right now. Apparently she just came back from a 2 months trip. She told my husband it would be nice to get to know each other, since they will be working together. She did not invite anyone else for lunch and she used her personal phone to ask him out instead of her work phone.

It sounds weird to me. I think she met him in a zoom meeting and she likes him. My husband is very charming, he’s funny, smart and good looking. I trust my husband, but he often doesn’t see when people are flirting or interested. AIO?

My 28F husband 28M and I had a huge fight this morning. He asked me ‘’what do you want to do?’’, I replied ‘’what do you mean?’’, he replied ‘’well it seems you want to argue and I’m not down for it.’’, I replied ‘’I never said that, I told you I didn’t understand your question.’’.

I’m autistic, and I have trouble answering his questions when I don’t fully understand his expectations. Also, I’m very sensitive, and I quickly feel overwhelmed when I’m not understood.

I started repeating ‘’I don’t understand your question’’, rocking back and forth holding my head to regulate myself, while he was being contemptuous, talking about how I need to learn not to raise my voice when I’m upset, saying I’m too immature, and he won’t talk to me since I’m not an adult, etc. I screamed ‘’please just talk to me like I’m your equal and stop with the contempt’’. He replied ‘’you’re not my equal’’. I screamed ‘’stop saying that’’, and he said it again, smiling.

At that point, I was just covering my ears, screaming ‘’stop’’, rocking back and forth. After a few minutes of this, he stopped and left.

1h later, he came back and asked me if I wanted to talk about what happened. I apologized for screaming, then I asked if he had anything to say. He said not really. I hinted an apology would be nice, but he defended himself saying he said it because I was screaming at him.

I know I’m guilty, I scream and I have autism related issues, so communication can be hard. But straight up telling me many times I’m not his equal is so hurtful. I need him to apologize before I can talk to him again. I know stone walling is an asshole move, but I can’t even look at him right now.

So, AITA for not speaking to my husband until he apologizes?