u/boyfriendanyway

I think I don’t really experience sexual attraction towards other women and it’s making me doubt my sexuality.

Tagged NSFW because I’ll be talking about sexual preference.

Now that I’ve had a fair amount of both romantic and sexual experience, men and women, I’ve realized that I have a harder time enjoying sex with a woman than with a man. I don’t at all derive pleasure from touching a vagina, or really from looking at another woman’s body at all. I’m kind of indifferent to it. For a while I thought I’m just a “pillow princess,” but I do enjoy pleasuring men (like, a penis. I’ve been with a trans man whose vagina I wasn’t attracted to).

My confusion is that I definitely have romantically liked women. My first crush was a girl. I get butterflies, everything that I feel with men but honestly amplified. I find it easier to connect with women, not just as friends.

I guess I’m wondering if I’m still bisexual despite this. I feel like I’ll inevitably end up with a man because I value the sexual aspects of a relationship and I enjoy doing it with men more… Is that still bisexuality at that point?

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u/boyfriendanyway — 7 days ago
▲ 338 r/FirePunch

Why are there suddenly so many deer/animals around when Agni starts living with the women?

I’m assuming that they’re not eating Agni at this point, but they’re still somehow eating meals every day. It’s been a problem to find fresh food and animals up to here, so why does that suddenly stop?

Bonus question: why does Agni pretend not to have killed the deer?

u/boyfriendanyway — 9 days ago
▲ 6 r/women

Waxing on your period?

I just got my period and I have an appointment for a Brazilian tomorrow. There is a fee for cancellation with under 24 hours notice that I don’t really want to pay; my period is irregular, so I couldn’t have known. Would it be acceptable to show up?

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u/boyfriendanyway — 9 days ago

I love smelling good all over. I recently ran out of this Korean one I was using that smelled like roses & honey and worked perfectly with my conditioner/body butter/perfume combo… and I can’t find it again…

Been using chi because it doesn’t feel incredibly heavy but the smell is so blegh. Help!!!

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u/boyfriendanyway — 14 days ago

I’m reading the manga for the first time. I might be wrong, but while watching the anime, I thought, “I totally understand why people call this gooner and fanservice-heavy, as much as I love this show,” but the manga doesn’t give me that same feeling. It just feels like a romance with more perverted aspects, and a lot of the suggestive stuff Marin pulls comes off as a girl who’s somewhat socially inept from watching anime all the time (although that part is pretty much the same in the anime).

But the biggest change I appreciated was how obvious it is that Gojo loves Marin from the start! That scene in the first slide is included in the anime (though slightly changed to be more dramatic), but in the anime it makes me think, “Gojo is blushing because a pretty girl just crashed into him,” vs. in the manga I think, “Gojo is blushing because he’s had his eyes set on Marin since before.” In the anime, the shot into her cleavage (slide 2) and up her skirt (slide 3) didn’t immediately read to me as being included because Gojo had accidentally looked there, although I figured. It seemed like it was just there and Gojo happened to look, while in the manga it’s there because Gojo looked.

u/boyfriendanyway — 22 days ago
▲ 201 r/Naruto

Just finished the land of waves arc. Maybe I was more shocked because I was expecting a wholly admirable character from my childhood impression of him, but I was still shocked by Zabuza’s relationship with Haku. Takes an incredibly vulnerable kid off the street, tells him he’s worthless first thing, then makes him into a “tool” for his use to the point where Haku could only see himself living if he could be of use to Zabuza. Still a tragic villain and genuinely admirable (a product of his environment, breaking free from that mindset). Guess I wasn’t expecting to be so moved by their story and for my impression as an adult to change so much.

Zabuza reminds me a lot of Makima, whom I did also genuinely admire when I was younger than Denji and reading CSM (and am now thoroughly disgusted by as an adult. Although, Zabuza never lays a hand on Haku, so take the comparison with a grain of salt…)

Did anyone else find changes like these after rewatching as an adult? Honestly can’t wait to see more of this as I watch. I suspect there will be a lot.

u/boyfriendanyway — 23 days ago