u/brownhairedfloof

What are some of the best local food spots in cyberjaya? Theres a Nasi lemak spot at mmu I liked. Are these any good ayam gepuk or something interesting I can try. Thanks

If your mil left Iran (her home destroyed, lost love ones in the war) she escaped but lost everything back home. She & FIL moved in w the eldest son abroad & she got bored w the eldest so she traveled overseas to come stay w her son & you but she’s constantly negative & passive aggressive towards you & DH. How much do you sympathise & when do you put an end to it?

I’m 2.5 month postpartum & she has an opinion on everything…

Im suffering from Limerence for a fling I had 5 years ago, he had narcissistic traits. He did a lot of intermittent reinforcement, bread-crumbing, negging & love bombing. I studied psychology so I was able to recognise these patterns & I withdrew completely and cut him off 3 weeks in, but even though I understood what it was, I still think about him, check his socials for updates 5 years later. It’s so annoying. I wish I could just stop.

Any help?

I wasn’t aware AP was a thing before yesterday.

Yesterday I was waking up from sleep but was very sleepy/felt heavy & looked around I could see it was my room but something felt off and I could see like a square or rectangle shape, I went close and felt a strong vibration,I felt like my soul was leaving my body and woke up scared. I was searching about it and online information says it could’ve been an AP starter.

Is this safe? Will I be able to do that again? Can the “dream” or whatever that was be controlled? Have people died or left their body and never returned?

Hello everyone, long rant—sorry in advance.

I just need to vent because I don’t have anyone to talk to right now. I’m a first-time mom. My baby was premature and spent 2 weeks in the NICU, and my recovery was slow due to stress and lack of rest/eating.

Now I’m 2 months postpartum. Physically I’m doing a bit better, but I’m still exhausted from breastfeeding and barely feel like myself. My husband has been very supportive, but his mom came to visit 2 weeks ago and has been making me feel awful.

Since she arrived, I feel like I have more work (cooking, cleaning, trying to look presentable, and staying up during the day to entertain her instead of resting). My husband tells me I don’t have to do all this, but I feel obligated because of cultural expectations.

The problem is, she constantly makes comments. She compares me to other women who “do so much more” postpartum, makes remarks about the house not being perfectly clean, and points out that I’m not cooking three meals a day just doing what I can manage.

Today, my husband’s friends are coming over briefly to see the baby. I had already cleaned yesterday, and the house wasn’t messy. While my baby was finally sleeping on my chest after a feed, she started rearranging and cleaning the living room. I politely asked her multiple times to leave it, saying I’d handle it later.

She ignored that and later sat next to me and said something like, “Maybe it’s because I come from a very neat family we feel uncomfortable when visiting a messy house.”

I honestly didn’t even know how to respond. It felt like a direct insult, and I’m already stretched thin.

No one invited her to come this early postpartum she just showed up. I don’t even know how long she plans to stay. She’s leaving for a week or two to visit her other son and then coming back, and I feel like I’m reaching my breaking point.

Am I overreacting here?

TL;DR: First-time mom, 2 months postpartum and exhausted. MIL showed up uninvited, creates more work, and constantly makes passive-aggressive comments about cleanliness and cooking. Feeling overwhelmed and close to my breaking point.