u/butterflyhighs

I have a best friend of the same sex at tuwing lumalabas kami together para kumain or gumala, ako lang lagi ang nagppicture at nagpopost sa IG. I know naman na some people want to stay lowkey and prefer not to post as often as I do, and I respect that. Nalungkot lang ako kasi my friend never reposts MY stories. Nung napag-usapan namin, sabi niya nagmumukha raw kasi kaming magjowa. Thing is, nirerepost niya naman yung stories, and sometimes siya na rin ang nagpopost, nung isa niyang friend of the same sex din kahit silang dalawa lang yung nasa photos. Nawalan tuloy ako ng ganang ipost siya. Feels like something small, OA lang ba ako?

How do you decide if you should migrate or not? My parents keep asking me kung ano plans ko pero hirap talaga ako magplano. This is something I want but I’m not really sure if it’s the right choice? Based on what I’ve researched so far hindi masyadong maganda magmigrate sa US ngayon, especially for someone like me na public health ang gustong i-pursue.

I’m going to be separated from my family and parang thinking about it natatakot ako haha. Natatakot ako kasi di ako good with change, but I also don’t want to let go of the opportunity.

I’d appreciate any tips or advice, I feel kinda lost sa life ngayon haha

May best friend ako since school days, mga 10 years na kaming magkaibigan. May ex ako from that school na naging jowa din niya right after ko. Tapos nung nagbreak sila nagkabalikan kami after mga 4 years hahahahaha pero now ex ko (namin) na talaga siya. We ended pretty badly, at alam nung best friend ko yun. Alam niya kung gaano ako nasaktan nung sinabi niyang jinowa niya lang yung ex ko at the time para makaganti sakin. We talked about this na and okay naman after. Pero ewan, parang hindi pa rin talaga ako fully moved on, pero hinayaan ko na kasi nasabi ko na sa kaniya lahat at okay naman kami as friends. Ngayon nalaman ko na nag-uusap pa sila haha. Nagkita pa sila kasi may mga gamit si friend na pinabili sa kaniya. Nalungkot lang ako na nainis kasi alam niya naman yung sakit pero in contact pa rin sila? OA lang ba ako haha

I have crater-like scars from my acne, and my derma recommended multiple CO2 laser sessions though very pricey siya. Is it effective and worth it for lifting scars or should I stick to meso peels lang? Thanks!

Need song recommendations that will lift my mood and make me feel like life is worth living, any suggestions welcome!

Looking for matcha recommendations, specifically around the Tandang Sora area, but anywhere in QC is fine too! Help me get my matcha fix pleaseee

I, 23F, started a job with an NGO a month ago, contract signed, received my first salary and everything.

To give a bit of a background, I previously worked in the government for 6 months but eventually resigned due to toxicity. It took me 4 months of unemployment and continuous job hunting to land this NGO job. I really really liked it at first because of the WFH set up and the opportunities it gave me, and I finally enjoyed what I was doing compared to my government job. During the same time I was applying to the NGO job, I applied for another position in a different department under the same government agency. About 3 weeks into working with the NGO, I got accepted to the government job, project-based, 8-5, onsite. My parents forced me to sign the contract and juggle both jobs at once, although the NGO was heavily against it. My government job allowed me to attend meetings but to avoid doing NGO work during office hours.

It has been a week since I signed with the government agency. My family is now telling me to resign from the government job since it is inevitable that both I and the organizations I work for will suffer. I already have conflicting schedules that I do not know how to balance. I feel ashamed and scared since the industry I work in is very small, and I do not want to burn any bridges. However, at this point, it already feels like I have just tarnished my name and image for both jobs.

If I resign from the government job will I still be considered for positions in the future? Is it a bad idea to resign after only a week, or would it be worse to prolong everything just to resign later on?

Please help me, I feel hopeless and that I just destroyed my future and my relationships within my career landscape.