u/caramio5

Hi guys first of all I am not a native English speaker, sorry for mistakes. I have a LD relationship for 2 months with a man. We live in the same country. He is not bad though, he cares about me, when I am ill or having a bad day, he talks to me for hours and tries to solve my problems, and he buys me everything, but he has strict beauty&behavioral standards that he forces me to fit in. Me (F23) boyfriend (M29). He always asks me to be well-groomed. He doesn't like my physical appearance when I don't have makeup on my face or I wear regular home clothes. He says a woman must be good-looking all the time. When I say I don't put on makeup because I have work to do, he says "you are at home all the day, you have nothing to do but to be beautiful" I feel so exhausted because I put on makeup for every video call. I have tanned skin and he says he loves white women more, he asks me to use whitening creams. Funny thing is here, he took the first step when he met with me. I saw him as a friend at first. From the beginning he knew I have tanned skin. Plus, he asked me to lose weight. I am 5'8" (172 cm) and 165 lbs (75 kg). I don't think I am overweight. He is 6'3" and 300 pounds (I think he is heavier than that because I can see it on video call) Also he criticizes my behaviours a lot. He says a woman must be like that bla bla bla. I am have been planning to meet with him end of this month, but now I am on the brink of breakup. What do you think?

Hi guys, I (F23) have a relationship for 2 months. My boyfriend (M29) is generally a highly serious person, but sometimes he is mischievous. He says he likes to bully me, he thinks this is a sign of sincerity. He says this is the way he loves someone. Last night while we were talking, he said he would sit on my face and fart loudly. He said "your skin gets darker after I farted on your face (I have tanned skin). He said, after he farts, my students would ask me how my skin got darker (I am a teacher) He keot laughing hard. I tried to explain how this joke disturbed me but he was laughing. He says I am too touchy. Do you think I am too touchy?

Hi guys, I (F23) have a relationship for 2 months. My boyfriend (M29) is generally a highly serious person, but sometimes he is mischievous. He says he likes to bully me, he thinks this is a sign of sincerity. He says this is the way he loves someone. Last night while we were talking, he said he would sit on my face and fart loudly. He said "your skin gets darker after I farted on your face (I have tanned skin). He said, after he farts, my students would ask me how my skin got darker (I am a teacher) He kept laughing hard. I tried to explain how this joke disturbed me but he was laughing. He says I am too touchy.