Recently I've noticed jelly paws has put out a ton of mods. I was just wondering does anybody know if they use AI because the rate in the amount of mods are putting out is crazy? Also I'm pretty sure everything is Perma pay walled so if they are that's pretty bad...
Using MC command centre you can obviously change your game time speed my current speed is 35. I’m curious what everyone else plays at if you even change it at all.
Hi everyone,
I’m looking for advice because I’m really worried about one of my closest friends, and I want to make sure I handle this in the best way possible.
She’s 5’9” and used to be a healthy weight. Over the past year she’s experienced an incredibly traumatic family loss, and the trial related to it has recently finished. Since then she’s lost a significant amount of weight.
I know grief can absolutely cause weight loss, so I don’t want to jump to conclusions. What worries me is that alongside the weight loss she’s started saying things like, “I want to see how skinny I’ll get,” and she’s talked about wanting to reach a Wight that is extremely unhealthily.
Hearing her describe that as a goal has really alarmed me.
Recently she also fainted hurt her self and ended up in hospital. That was the point where my other friends and I started wondering if this could be affecting her physical health too.
The four of us are really worried, but none of us know the right thing to do. I don’t want to comment on her appearance because I’ve heard that telling someone they “look sick” or “look too thin” can sometimes reinforce disordered thoughts. I also don’t want her to feel judged or like we’re accusing her of having an eating disorder if that’s not what’s going on. Would it be better for one or two of us to have a private conversation with her, or should we leave it alone unless she brings it up herself? If we do talk to her, what kinds of things are helpful to say and what should we avoid saying? For anyone who’s been on the receiving end of these conversations, what made you feel supported rather than attacked?
Been having this issue after the most recent update. Before I update my game I always update my mods. My mods are usually always fine after updating but saving during gameplay displays this double saving screen.
I ran better exceptions, found nothing.
Ether it takes like 10 mins and shows an error to save.
Or just never saves. My sims are also slightly moving. I can’t click anything expensive the ui and that all works so I don’t think the game is crashing.
Wondering if anyone else has had this before and knows what causes it ?
My (22F) relationship with my mum (52F) has become increasingly difficult over the last few years. For context, my mum doesn’t really have any close female friends. Any social life she has tends to come through my dad, and she frequently complains about feeling left out and says women are cliquey. Another important detail is that my younger brother doesn’t seem to get the same expectations placed on him that I do. The biggest argument recently started when she asked why she struggles to make friends. I genuinely tried to answer honestly. I told her that friendships aren’t always 50/50 and that sometimes you need to make the effort first, check in on people, and be there for them during difficult times. For example, one of my closest friends recently escaped an abusive relationship and another is dealing with a serious family issue. My friendship group has been supporting them through those things. My mum laughed and basically asked what I’d ever done for my friends. When I explained, she dismissed it and said nobody is ever there for her. She then started criticising my friends, saying they’re fake and all they do is talk badly about each other, which simply isn’t true. She also frequently criticises my relationship. My boyfriend and I are both quite independent people, but my mum constantly compares us to her relationship with my dad and says things like, “When I was your age, your dad and I spent every second together.” She often suggests there’s something wrong with my relationship because of this. Another incident happened on Mother’s Day while I was finishing my dissertation. I was a broke final-year university student working part-time and my dissertation was due within days. Every waking hour was spent writing. I bought my mum flowers and a card beforehand and planned to spend time with her. I woke up around 9:30am and she was gone. I called her several times before she eventually answered and said, “Nobody said happy Mother’s Day to me this morning, so I fucked off and did my own thing.” I apologised and explained that I’d literally just woken up and had flowers and a card waiting for her, but she ignored my calls for most of the day. When she came home, she started screaming about how I didn’t appreciate her and how other daughters treated their mothers better. She started throwing things at me and cancelled our plans because neither my brother nor I had wished her a happy Mother’s Day first thing in the morning. I was already under enormous pressure with university and ended up feeling guilty and upset for days. She asked why I don’t go shopping, go to the cinema, or spend more time with her.The truth is that we simply have different interests.
The thing is, I don’t think she’s a bad person. I think she’s lonely. I think she had a difficult childhood, prioritised her relationship with my dad over maintaining friendships, and now expects me to fill some of that emotional gap. But I’m still her daughter, not her best friend. AITAH?