u/charmingxcally

maybe it’s just me but late night 7-11 or cheers runs always have a very specific vibe to them. the quiet aircon, random snacks, cold drinks and that feeling of walking around with nowhere urgent to be

sometimes i’ll go in just to buy one thing and somehow end up standing there for ten minutes deciding what snack i want like it’s a life decision

nighttime in sg just feels calmer in general and convenience stores somehow become part of that atmosphere

you know that feeling when you see someone’s message pop up and you actually look forward to replying because the conversation just flows naturally

i feel like it’s quite rare nowadays. a lot of chats become dry very fast or stay at surface level, even when both people seem nice

sometimes i miss having that one person you can talk to about random things throughout the day without it feeling forced or awkward

curious if other people feel the same or if everyone is just too busy and tired nowadays

during the day everything feels rushed all the time, people moving around, notifications nonstop, things to do everywhere. but once it gets late at night, everything suddenly feels quieter and calmer

sometimes i’ll just sit there listening to music, scrolling aimlessly or thinking about random things and it weirdly becomes the most peaceful part of the day

kind of makes me miss having people to share those late night conversations with too because somehow talks at night always feel more genuine

does anyone else enjoy nighttime way more than daytime or is it just me

i know social media only shows the best parts of people’s lives, but sometimes it still gets hard not to compare. you see people travelling, getting internships, meeting new people, reaching milestones and it starts feeling like everyone else is progressing faster somehow

even when i know i’m doing okay in my own way, there are moments where i still feel behind or unsure if i’m doing enough

for people who used to struggle with this, how did you stop constantly comparing your own pace to everyone around you

during the day i can be quite quiet and low energy, but once it gets late suddenly i feel like talking to people, sending random thoughts and having long conversations about nonsense

maybe it’s because everything feels calmer at night or there are less distractions, but somehow conversations always feel more genuine during those hours

kind of miss having people who are also awake late and down to just talk about random things without it feeling forced

does anyone else get more social at night or is it just me

lately i’ve been feeling like my days are all quite similar, same places, same routines, same few things on repeat. it’s not that anything is wrong, just feels a bit repetitive after awhile

i try to change things up sometimes like going out or doing something different, but it still goes back to the same cycle quite quickly

for people who have experienced this, how do you make your routine feel more interesting or less repetitive without changing everything completely

sometimes i’ll meet someone new and the conversation is actually quite nice, but after that both people just go back to their own lives and nothing really continues from there

feels like everyone is busy, tired or unsure whether they’re being too forward, so a lot of potentially good friendships just stay as short conversations

i miss when friendships happened more naturally without needing so much effort or overthinking behind it

i’m honestly quite chill and easygoing, so part of me wants to just talk to more people again instead of staying in the same routine all the time

how are you guys making new friends in sg recently