u/cherryyyyxx

Guys I know we’re all obsessed with Harry to an extent but does anybody feel extra obsessed recently???

I’ve been a fan since XFactor days as I’m from England. Harry’s always been my favourite. Fan account back in 2013 etc basically a huge fan!!!

But I don’t know what is in the air recently - I feel SO obsessed with him. I’ve been watching every livestream of his concerts, playing his songs ALL day (I get bored easily so this is a new for me lol), watching This Is Us and DWD, reading Wiki pages about him… honestly the list goes on.

Harry is so ingrained in my mind since his tour started that I keep dreaming about him too. I’m late 20’s like I almost feel embarrassed 😭😭😭

Is this normal or do I need to be locked up xoxoxoxx

I absolutely cannot wait to see him live at Wembley but I’m worried about how I’ll feel once my shows are over. 🤣🍒🍉🥝🤍

Going to see a show at this venue next month. We have upper balcony seats. Doors open at 7pm.

Any tips to get a decent seat? We don’t want to go too early lol

Or any general advice about the venue would be appreciated.

I’ve known my friend for over 15 years now, but lately I’m finding her so draining and I don’t know if I’m overreacting.

Yesterday we went to a concert. I text her to come 15 mins later than planned because myself and my sister were not ready yet and we had plenty of time until the show started anyway and she bluntly replied saying no and that she’s ready and will be leaving soon. Whatever. She came later anyway so that text message was very unnecessary.

We parked a bit far and walked there, finally got inside the venue, and literally as we were about to sit down she realised she forgot her phone in the car.

She panicked, security said you can’t leave once you enter, then after loads of back and forth they agreed to let ONLY her go get it and come back through the same entrance. Fine.

I waited there while she got her phone, then instead of coming back to the entrance she was told to use, she went to a completely different one and told me to come there instead???

She was being so rude on the phone when I told her to just come to the original entrance and saying stuff like “don’t you know the entrance I’m at?” in a super bitchy tone. I had to run around trying to find her, explain to confused staff why our tickets had already been scanned, and eventually the main security guy came over and basically told her “I told you to come back to the other door.”

By the time we got in we’d missed the first 2 songs!!

The whole concert after that she barely spoke and acted moody the entire time. I tried talking to my sister instead because the vibe was so awkward. Then on the way home she forgot where she parked, so we walked around loads again, and then randomly made a sly comment about my shoes like “how are those flats now?” because earlier I’d said they were comfy.

What annoyed me most is she never properly acknowledged that we missed part of the concert because of the phone situation. At one point I mentioned a cool thing the artist apparently did (that we saw on TikTok later) and she just went “I think that was the opening” and sort of sniggered.

This isn’t even a one-off. The other week we were already late to a movie and halfway to the building she suddenly ran back to check if she’d locked her car.

She’s constantly chaotic/disorganised and I feel like I’m always the one adapting, reassuring her, waiting around, or dealing with the aftermath while she gets moody/stressed.

I’ve realised recently I genuinely can’t tolerate being around her for more than a few hours anymore. She asked me to go on holiday with her and I made an excuse because the thought of travelling with her sounded exhausting.

I still care about her because we’ve been friends forever, but I’m starting to dread plans with her. Am I being harsh or does this friendship just sound draining at this point?

This guy isn’t my SP anymore but he was a few years ago. He was my co worker. When I tell you I was OBSESSED with this guy. I manifested him to be obsessed with me constantly. I even did mini obsession spells. Anyway a few years have passed now and he still messages me at least once a week (we haven’t seen each other since October 2023).

Guys he’s so obsessed with me and I honestly hate it. I just don’t like him anymore. He has so many photos saved of me and compliments me and is just soooo intense. I know some of you would wish for this with your SP just like I did but I’ve grown wiser and it’s really not that great.

I wished for obsession and that’s exactly what I got :/

I went to Asda to do a birthday shop for a family member. A customer lady in the birthday aisle recommended me to buy sparkling candles and so I picked a few up.

I never really buy anything that requires ID and had zero idea about Asda’s “challenge 25” policy. It would really help if they would at least let the customer know that they will need ID for the item BEFORE they reach the checkout.

Anyway, the cashier is scanning my items (it was a huge shop) and she says that I might trigger challenge 25. She asked my age I said 27 and asked for ID I said I don’t have any. She said these sparkling candles can’t be bought then and put them to the side. Tbh the cashier was super strange. She made some odd comment when scanning bras like girl idk you why are you telling me about your sagging tits (her words!). Then asking if I have kids…

At the end she worded it kind of strangely but asked me if I still wanted the candles and ofc I said yes and she handed them over and said go to the self checkout and they will let you purchase them. As she gave me the items back she shouted it to her colleague that it’s a challenge 25.

It was all odd now looking back but my sister and I took the items to the checkout and another colleague asked for ID and then said I can’t make the purchase. Which is find and I do understand but wtf lol it all happened too quick and I was under the impression that the purchase would go through on the checkouts.

Like I mentioned, it would make the customer experience smoother if we are aware of which items trigger this challenge 25 bs. Or maybe I’m just living under a rock. Just wanted sparkling candles😭

A small part of me wishes Justin’s coachella performances didn’t exist because how has it been a few weeks now and he’s still on my mind everyday.

I keep dreaming about him too😭😭 I feel so parasocial lol I’m too old to be feeling like a 14 year old fan girl again.

I did an order today which contained paracetamol so had to give ID info. I put my dad’s full name and DOB because he usually answers the door and just thought it would be easier. I think because I was doing it in a rush, I may have accidentally written the wrong birth year for my dad.

The driver asked for this info and my dad gave his and the driver turned away. He then knocked out door a minute later and told my dad that the info is not correct on his phone. My dad gave his name and DOB again but still no luck…

Literally 20 minutes passed and the driver knocked our door again to say that his phone is blocked and he can’t bypass anything. I felt bad because maybe it was my fault. I told my dad to tell the driver that perhaps I wrote the wrong birth date and to try the date I think i might’ve written. But the driver said his phone wasn’t letting him do anything.

The driver then asked my dad to call just eat to ask for help to unblock his phone?? This part really confused me because surely as a just eat employee, you have more access to resolving your own issues yourself?? I still feel bad but just wondered if it was us the customers who were meant to call just eat or the driver??

I was going to see him in Birmingham. It’s been a few hours since the news broke out and honestly I was SO upset but the way some people are acting towards Zayn has made me feel so sorry for him idk 😭

I’m sure he would rather feel 100% and do his tour as previously planned than be unwell and cancel so many shows.

His new album is amazing in my opinion and I’m super gutted that I won’t be hearing the songs live but I’ve already forgiven him for cancelling lmao