A patient at my job showed me how far I’ve fallen as a person

I work admin at a specialist medical office so any patient interaction usually winds up going to me first and foremost.

Today, a patient came up and told me they found a wad of money in one of our exam rooms and they didn’t know who it belonged to so they wanted to turn it in up front.

I was anticipating a few random dollars.

It was $300 rubber banded together.

I thanked her for her honesty and looked at it for a moment when she left.

I am not in a good spot financially and I haven’t been for a while. I’m having to do gig work on top of the 50 hours a week I work at this job already to take care of my disabled partner. Thankfully my boss was sitting next to me so we sealed it in an envelope and put it away in case someone claims it.

But I think if she wasn’t, I would have pocketed it. As I’ve gotten more and more poor, the things I have done and been willing to do for money have surprised me. It’s not greed. I don’t care about having more than I need. I just care about not even having what I need. I’m amazed that without batting an eye this person turned in money they could have taken with no consequence and arguably no moral obligation to return and they did it without question.

And here I am, honestly just resenting the fact my boss was there so I couldn’t have just taken it. It disgusts me.

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u/chickennuggetarian — 10 hours ago

Has anyone got Doom Infinite running on the Steam Deck?

It seems like ever since GZ Doom went under, finding an updated guide seems nearly impossible. Has anyone else figured it out? I’ve tried everything from doom runner to creating a custom bash and I can’t get it to boot.

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u/chickennuggetarian — 19 days ago

ACCC question

I’m currently trying to find ways to get my finances a little under control and am currently looking in to ACCC for my nearly 20K in CC debt.

Something I can’t find an answer on is that I’ve noticed lot of organizations basically let your cards default and negotiate for you that way which both ruins your credit and could open you up to a lawsuit.

Does ACCC function this way?

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u/chickennuggetarian — 21 days ago
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29M I’m tired

Today is just one of those days where the weight of being a human is really hitting. I’ve worked overtime every day this week and I still know I’ll be broke when the paycheck comes.

I’ve lost a lot of friends over the past year or so simply because they have found what I offer them in other people who do not require the same level of effort or just do it better. This isn’t speculation, I was told this very directly.

I just miss feeling like I was going somewhere and wasn’t just here expelling carbon dioxide and thinking about the idea that if everyone else is the problem, everyone else isn’t actually the problem.

u/chickennuggetarian — 1 month ago

I just got a second hand Alpha 3 to test out 3D printing and it was working well but I went to calibrate the mat and noticed the calibration screw is all the way down and won’t budge. The nozzle is scraping the mat and won’t print.

Any suggestions?

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u/chickennuggetarian — 4 months ago