Can I ask something

Do you really need confirm or to know that you are a lesbian by sleep with men?. Because I saw this argument in tiktok about this because some people says that if you not experience sleep with men you just isolate your experience. To be honest I don't get their point at all . I just want to hear your opinion this one.
Edit I want to share this argument here because there is a bisexual woman who is being lesphobic and making a podcast about it. I am really pissed off that they are trying to harm lesbians with this argument. Also, sorry for my broken English, as it is not my first language.

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u/chickenyourtruely — 19 hours ago

This is how I feel

I do like men because I'm bi but romantically Inlove with them but I don't feel sexually attracted to them just like I don't want to have sex with them but when it comes to women I will do anything sexual to them while while romantically with them.

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u/chickenyourtruely — 1 day ago

I don't know if I will ever date a man again.

I have never been in a relationship, but I am really sure that I am bisexual. I am attracted to both men and women, but I feel frustrated. As an adult now, I find men disgusting because of how they treat women. I see so many TikTok videos also in real life about marriage and living with men, and it looks like a disaster. They seem to be becoming more misogynistic, and now I don't want to date them. To be honest, though, I can see myself married to either a woman or a man.

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u/chickenyourtruely — 4 days ago

Help please

Hello po 🤗 I would like to ask how to go to a mental hospital without your family knowing and how much does it cost to get checked up in Iloilo, this is from Pototan po 😔 I just want to be better so I can find a job 🥺 I haven't been able to find a job because ever since graduation I always forget, I have many thoughts that will scare me if I can't explain. I'm also scared I always think that I have no hope of living please help me with an affordable check up please

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u/chickenyourtruely — 18 days ago