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Nothing beats Dad's home made malvani crab curry on a rain filled sunday.😌

Nothing beats Dad's home made malvani crab curry on a rain filled sunday.😌
Damn they flipped the script.
The victim has no voice left. The accused gets to shape the narrative.
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For context, We dated for 2.5 years and broke up 1.5 years ago on 1st Jan 2025. I moved on mentally, but I still had our chats and photos.
Today, a random reel from her new public account showed up on my feed. She got engaged.
I had kept chats and photos as they were live and had small audio clips of her voice as well.
I didn't cry or get angry, already past that phase a year ago. I just opened our photos, chat one last time and deleted everything.
I guess sometimes closure comes from realizing there's nothing left to wait for.
Good morning folks, it's a great day.🙌
Hey everyone,
I recently landed a freelance gig to build out a complete SaaS platform from scratch. The client is incredibly generous and is treating this as an opportunity for me to learn and implement things as we proceed with development. I want to make sure I choose the right architecture from day one.
I can't reveal the exact idea, but it functions as a two-sided platform connecting service providers with end-users. I need to pick a tech stack that plays to my strengths while keeping infrastructure costs as close to zero as possible.
Here is my profile and the project constraints:
- My Background: I am a frontend-heavy developer. My backend knowledge is only "okay-ish," so I’m looking for a stack that minimizes complex backend boilerplate and dev-ops headaches.
- Timeline: I have 4 to 5 months maximum to build and fully deploy the MVP.
- Strict Budget: The monthly budget for deployment, database, and any necessary transactional emailing cannot exceed $40/month for the MVP phase.
- Expected Scale: To start, the web app needs to comfortably sustain 100 service providers and roughly 1,000 active users.
- Payments and subscription : Stripe
- Team Size: It's just me (Solo dev).
Based on current trends, I've been leaning toward a meta-framework (like Next.js) paired with a BaaS (like Supabase or Firebase), but I’d love to hear from folks who have recently shipped something similar.
Questions for the community:
- Are there specific databases, ORMs, or auth providers you'd suggest that will confidently keep me under that $40/month limit for my expected user count?
- Any hosting or deployment "gotchas" I should watch out for when launching a two-sided platform on a shoestring budget?
Appreciate any guidance you can share!
Note : Used AI for articulation.
Sab moh maya hai. Naseeb ka khel hai bas chote.
Personal theory. Roughly thought out.
I feel relationships today have become a game of chance more than ever before.
People don't always fall for the actual person anymore. sometimes they fall for an idea of that person. Expectations, fantasies , things built from movies, social media, reels, relationship content, and this constant noise around us telling us what love should look like.
In the beginning, everything feels perfect. The Honeymoon phase filled with excitement and obsession.
Then eventually reality shows up.
Flaws show up, differences show up.
And honestly, that's normal. That's what every real relationship goes through.
But somewhere along the way, people stopped believing difficult phases are part of building something real. Now it feels like the moment cracks appear, people start wondering if they need a different house instead of fixing the one they're already in.
And maybe modern life amplified that feeling.
Imagine 15-20 years ago.
People fought too. Couples argued, got angry and needed space.
But after going home, there were fewer things competing for your emotions. Maybe you spoke to a friend, maybe you sat with your thoughts or maybe you just simply missed the other person.
Now after one argument, there's endless distraction.
Validation everywhere. Relationship advice from strangers online.
Algorithms feeding content that matches exactly how you're feeling in that moment.
Attention available instantly.
And the scary thing is, the brain slowly starts believing there's always someone better, Something better.
Some perfect person waiting around the corner.
So people keep moving.
Keep searching.
Keep replacing.
Not because leaving is always wrong, sometimes it is necessary.
But sometimes people leave because discomfort feels like failure.
And after enough houses, enough relationships, enough searching.
You eventually sit there wondering: "Was there actually something better?" Or did we slowly lose the ability to stay, repair, compromise, and build?
After enough houses, maybe the problem stops being the house. Then one day you realize you kept searching for belonging while slowly losing the ability to belong anywhere.
Maybe that's why despite having more options than ever before, people still feel alone.
Just a thought.
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I’m honestly stuck and need some outside perspective from people who’ve either been through this or hire people.
Background:
- ~2.5 years at Infosys (2021-2024)
- Mostly backend exposure (Java/SpringBoot environment)
- Some React training + self-learning
- Long periods where there wasn’t much real project ownership/work
- Took a career break afterwards ( Tried 2 businesses, had to book losses, food delivery)
- No debt. ( but ran out of the financial safety net )
- Currently trying to restart career but feeling heavily behind
The problem is:
I don’t feel strong enough for proper software engineering interviews right now, especially in DSA-heavy or production-level frontend/backend roles.
At the same time, I’ve also been trying to pivot into data/business analyst roles because I genuinely enjoy analysis/problem-solving more than hardcore dev work. But most analyst jobs want either:
- experienced analysts
- SQL + Power BI/Tableau + projects
- domain experience
- or strong communication/business exposure
So right now I feel stuck in this weird middle zone:
- not confident enough for dev jobs
- not qualified enough for analyst jobs
- and the gap is making confidence worse
What I’m currently doing:
- brushing up React + frontend basics
- learning SQL/data analysis
- building small projects for resume
- applying to jobs (very low response rate)
- considering doing freelance/small business on the side because financially I can’t sit idle forever. ( I already sell food locally by pre orders for small income )
What I need help with:
If you were in my position, what would you focus on for the next 2–3 months?
Should I double down on frontend/full-stack and just force my way back into dev?
Or should I commit fully to data/business analyst path?
Is it realistic to target startups first instead of big companies?
How do I explain weak project experience honestly without killing my chances?
What kinds of projects actually helped you get interviews?
I’m not looking for motivational advice honestly. I need practical direction from people who’ve recovered from this kind of situation.
Would really appreciate honest feedback.
PS : used ChatGPT for articulation.