Landlord Dispute

Hey all!

Brace yourselves, this could be a long one.

I started renting a place back in June 2023. It was listed on Facebook for $3000.

Fast forward to today, after three years of doing all of our own maintenance, I had the realization that it is actually the landlord's responsibility to do the lawncare and snow removal after the landlord texted me asking about a notice they received from my city's by-law regarding some weeds on the property (I had been working 15 hour days out of town and was not available to pull them). I called the LTB and they confirmed my suspicions. I also reached out to by-law, and they informed me that I had no responsibility for the lawncare, nor would I be under any obligation to pay any fines incurred. It falls onto the property owner.

I confronted my landlord over text last week and informed them of their responsibility to maintain the premises. I also requested reimbursement for the $570 I have spent so far this year to have a company come out and mow the lawn for us, and suggested a few local landscaping companies that they could reach out to for continuing maintenance of the property.

Today, they finally responded stating that "as per our lease agreement, you were provided with a $200 monthly discount on the rent specifically in consideration of the lawn care and snow removal responsibilities. We know our rights." (LOL)

Now, from what I've read in terms of the Residential Tenancies Act, even if there is a clause in your lease stating that maintenance is the tenants responsibility, it is void. On top of that, I looked at the signed lease, and there is no clause stating that there was a rent discount for maintenance. In fact, the box is checked "No rent discount".

I looked back and found the initial Facebook conversation between myself and the landlord. He stated early in our conversation that the lawn and snow removal was the tenants responsibility. It also has a Facebook update stating "(Landlord) reduced the price to $3000 for 5 beds 2 baths - House" on the listing. Before I even had a viewing at the place.

I screenshotted the conversation and sent it to him, questioning that if there was a $200 discount, why have I been paying $3000/month and not $2800? I also screenshotted and sent him my copy of the lease where it specifically states "No Rent Discount" and the box is checked. He has since stopped responding to me.

Did he just back himself into a corner? I caught him in a lie, all in writing, and now he's insisting I go through the LTB. I mostly feel bad for my neighbors who are now going to have to endure my unsightly property, as I am refusing to continue to pay for services that are not my responsibility.

I'm going to type my neighbors up a letter later this week apologizing and informing them of the situation at hand.

Anyone here dealt with a similar situation before? I'm fully prepared for the lengthy battle I'm sure is about to ensue. Does it seem pretty cut and dry?

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u/cocolocobro — 3 days ago
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Stolen Motorcycle (S West Ave/W 41st St)

Hey all

My boyfriend got his motorcycle stolen sometime last night between midnight and 6am.

If you have seen anything suspicious, possibly seen it in the back of a truck or anything, or know of any businesses in the surrounding area with a street-facing camera, please DM me ASAP. Police have already been notified.

'04 Yamaha R6

$5000 reward.

Thank you! ❤️

u/cocolocobro — 1 month ago

Even though it's hard, I'd never change it for the world ❤️

I typically would fly to see my (32F) boyfriend (33M), but I couldn't find anyone I trusted to watch my dogs for the Canada Day long weekend so I made the decision to drive across the Midwest US and bring them along. He lives in South Dakota.

After a painstaking 17 hour drive, I showed up to his place to a bath ran for me with candles and music. He told me to relax while he unpacked my car and then he came and gave me a massage.

Just a subtle brag, I'm so freaking lucky 🥰

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u/cocolocobro — 2 months ago

Visiting Sioux Falls

Hey all!

I'm driving to Sioux Falls from Ontario, Canada on Tuesday and spending the week there. I will have my two dogs with me, Lily the Golden Retriever and Ajax the German Shepherd/Golden Retriever mix.

Any fun activity suggestions I can do, preferably that my dogs can join? They're well behaved and whenever I take them to restaurants here, they just lay down under the table and chill!

I was also looking for dog friendly beaches that I can swim with my pups, however Google has been giving me a lot of mixed answers so I wanted to ask the locals for any good spots! I don't mind travelling a bit out of the city.

If anyone has any opinions on the best dog parks in the city I'd also be super grateful.

That said, keep an eye out for a MINI with Ontario plates next week. Give me a honk and a wave! 👋😊

Thanks in advance!

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u/cocolocobro — 2 months ago
▲ 3 r/BPD

I am looking for some advice for anyone whose BPD has gone into remission.

I'm 32F and was diagnosed officially when I was 26, after years of hell and abusive behavior towards myself and others from early teens onward. I have tried meds, they never stuck, and haven't been able to afford therapy..

But as I've gotten older, I feel like I'm more calm. I still overreact emotionally sometimes, but nothing like I would when I was younger. I don't scream, I'm really good at pinpointing my emotions and explaining how I'm feeling if I'm upset rather than lashing out. I have way less negative thoughts.

I've done a lot of BPD worksheets I've found online, read books about the disorder, and have been practicing mindfulness. I also have an extremely supportive partner who makes me feel calm and safe.

Am I healing and being released from my mental prison? I want to believe I'm doing better, but on the other hand I'm afraid it's just temporary. My ex left in a pretty traumatic way and I'm wondering if the trauma somehow rewired my brain to fix itself??

I don't know. Thoughts, opinions? Help 🤣

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u/cocolocobro — 4 months ago