u/confusedfunk

Shook our windows around 1amish

So essentially im worried my wife doesnt like me anymore. Theres been no big blow up or fight, nothing specifically that ive done wrong, but things that didnt seem to bother her at all in the past are growing into bigger and bigger annoyances for her now.

Ive been trying to change as a person and annoy her less, such as less over sharing about things im interested in that shes not, trying to give her more alone time and so on, but its not necessarily helping. Firstly theres the fact that she just wants to spend less time with me, saying that shes just changed a bit but still loves me while wanting more alone time. However the alone time shes asking for is basically not spending any time with me at all.

Then theres the fact that shes becoming a bit meaner and critical about me, even just occasionally trying to clear my throat upsets her. If i end up working from home by remoting in she is visably and audibly upset because its on a day she has off. Even though im mainly just going to be in the study and happy to have a day at home.

Then if i call her out for being mean to me, suddenly im guilt tripping her. These are just a few examples but its just becoming more and more like she doesnt want to spend time with me or have me around, i cant remember the last time she actually liked something about me.

She insists its not like that at all and she still likes me but its harder to believe every time she says it.

So really i just want to know if this is something thats normal to happen in long term relationships? (its been almost 9 years weve been together and its the first time this has happened)

If so how did this resolve or not resolve?

This can be anything from mechanics, story, lore, characters, enemies, artstyle, items, armours, weapons or even perks.

And this doesnt have to be realistic, just whatever would bring you the most joy personally.

Ill leave my answer in the comments, but im just happy to see the community to be excited about something new!

For those who dont know, since launch bl1 goty on pc has terrible stuttering and memory leak issues and have had this since launch. I waited for them to patch it but they still havent.

I know there are fixes online which you have to go into your game files, but there multiple different fixes along with people saying you will still need to reboot it every hour or so to prevent the issues coming up, do we just accept this from a triple a company? I just want to do a playthrough with my friends but its borderline unplayable.

EDIT: RIP the spelling error in the title, thanks spell check.

So there was a lot of excitement around the counter strike 2 maps having a potential Arg for half life. this is now slowly turning out to be nothing at the moment. But at the start i did find it strange to have a ARG in counter strike seeing as apart from sharing the same devs and engine, the fanbase and setting are completely seperate from half life. so i ask the question, where do you think they would tease half life 3?

My thoughts are that they would tease it in either already released half life games (they did this in the original portal before portal 2 reveal by updating the ending and more), or that they would have it entirely on the internet. Think breengrub or long dog. This way it is either clearly in a half life game and related, getting people to go back and play them, or its out on the internet with more eyes on it and not linked to the wrong franchise.

I think it would be very unlikely for the reveal/ARG for half life 3 to be in counterstrike, deadlock or dota 2, as they are for the most part seperate and unrelated, appealing to entirely different fanbases and audiences. I just personally think it would attract the wrong crowd and make people think the tease is for the game the tease is currently in, not half life.

Thats if we even get a half life 3, despite all of the data mining and everything lines up, theres been data mining and everything lining up for over a decade now so id have to say its anyones guess if it will ever happen, they might even just shadow drop it anyway ¯\_(ツ)_/¯