u/cozylovingnerd

Több mint 6 éve Budapesten élek, de még soha nem jártam ez előtt ott, mert ritkán járok a városnak azon a részén. Talán egy alkalommal jártam ott tavaly, amikor busszal mentem a repülőtérre és ott kellett átszállni, akkor nem gondoltam róla túl sok mindent, mert csak átmentem rajta.

Viszont pár hete úgy döntöttünk anyukámmal, hogy autóval elmegyünk oda, mert a környéken jártunk és - bár általánosságban elég jól tudok tájékozódni - soha nem voltam még ennyire összezavarodva.

Alapból úgy értelmeztem, hogy valamiért több parkoló van több bejárattal, de van közöttük átjárás. Aztán amikor egyszer le szerettünk volna menni az autóba betenni valamit, akkor teljesen eltévedtünk, azt sem tudtuk melyik szinten vagyunk és minden alkalommal amikor azt gondoltuk kijutunk, akkor csak egy huszadik ajtó fogadott minket. Alapból meg kellett kérdeznem egy arrajáró embert, hogy hol van a bejárat, mert eddig minden bevásárlóközpont ahol jártam autómata ajtóval rendelkezett, itt pedig minden ajtó úgy nézett ki, mintha egy vészkijárat lenne, ezért első gondolatra rájuk sem próbáltam.

Plusz pont, hogy minden egyes fal tele volt graffitikkel.

Nem utálkozni szeretnék, mert vannak ennél nagyobb problémák is (és van millió másik pláza a városban), de ennek a helynek van valami történelme, hogy ilyen lett? Esetleg egy kisebb hely volt, amit mindig felujitottak és ezért lett ennyire "mindenes" az egész?

Mostmár kiváncsi lettem.

I am currently working on a side project where users would be able search for jobs on the website itself and it would curate jobs from let's say LinkedIn, Glassdoor and Indeed (I guess those are the most popular sites). I would do additional filtering on them which are not possible on these websites yet (for example, there's a lot of us who move from one EU country to another and would like to look for English speaking jobs before we move since it's easier to get start that way, however, many job posts are not in English, some of them have English titles but the description is in that country's language, and some of them are in English but they specifically state that you have to speak the language, I would filter all of these out and the user could click the posting's link to be redirected to LinkedIn, Indeed, etc...).

The goal would be that the user can search for jobs by location (so city / country) and I should be able to query at least the jobs titles, their descriptions and the links to the actual job posting (so a link to the LinkedIn job posting for example).

What I've already tried: I haven't found any official APIs for LinkedIn that could do what I need so I've decided to open it from incognito mode, so I'm not logged in, search for jobs on the site as a "guest" and try to reverse engineer the URL parameters and somehow scrape the data I need from the HTML page. After some digging through the browser's dev tools I found an api that gets called, here's an example URL for it:

https://www.linkedin.com/jobs-guest/jobs/api/seeMoreJobPostings/search?keywords=Software%2BEngineer&location=Cologne%2C%2BNorth%2BRhine-Westphalia%2C%2BGermany&geoId=105890944&trk=public_jobs_jobs-search-bar_search-submit&position=1&pageNum=0&start=0

This could actually work pretty well for me. I found that it returns one page at a time and you can increase the "start" parameter at the end by 25 for the next sets of results, I found this by looking at what gets called while I scroll on LinkedIn's "Jobs" page after a search. I can call this API from the browser or with postman with any "start" parameter that can be divided by 25, however, when I call it from my code, only a random number of pages get returned. Sometimes that is 4 pages, sometimes 10.

What could be the issue here? Am I on the right track at least or should I try a completely different approach?

Here's my code so far

import requests
from lxml import html

search_term = "Software Developer"
search_term_words = search_term.split()


search_term_url_phrase = ""
for word in search_term_words:
    search_term_url_phrase = search_term_url_phrase + word
    search_term_url_phrase = search_term_url_phrase + "%2B"


try:
    page_count = 0


    while 1 == 1: # please ignore this condition and try not to have a heart attack, i'm just testing lmao
        print(page_count)
        url = f"https://www.linkedin.com/jobs-guest/jobs/api/seeMoreJobPostings/search?keywords={search_term_url_phrase}&location=Cologne%2C%2BNorth%2BRhine-Westphalia%2C%2BGermany&geoId=105890944&trk=public_jobs_jobs-search-bar_search-submit&position=1&pageNum=0&start={page_count}"
        response = requests.get(url)


        jobs = html.fromstring(response._content).find_class('sr-only')


        for job in jobs:
            print(job.text_content().strip())


        print("\n")
        page_count = page_count + 25
except:
    print("no more jobs available")

('sr-only' is the class name for the div tags that contain the job titles themselves)

I thought I was getting rate limited at first so I've already tried adding a 10 second delay between requests but it didn't work.

Edit: I know the code quality is not too great at the moment, I'm just trying to find the method of querying the jobs for now.

So at this point I identify as gay and also somewhere between asexual and demisexual (I'm still trying to figure out). I broke up with my boyfriend (of 4 and a half years) about 3 months ago and at that point I didn't even know demisexuality was a thing.

My brain always blocked this feeling these past few years because I thought something's wrong with me but a lot times, sex with him just felt like a chore, something to get out of the way.

I'm a very late learner on this whole thing but for me it was always an emotional experience. For me, to be intimate with someone is the whole package of being attracted to their personality, how they look (looks are a preference of course, everyone has one, for some it's more important, for others less so) and also the type of connection we've built over time. I enjoy the lead-up to it more than the actual thing. I love kissing, undressing each other, touching, everything, and also the fact that we are so close that we give consent to each other to do that also turns me on a little.

The thing is, he never seemed to enjoy these things. I guess the biggest disconnect was the fact that I am not really into doing back stuff (neither as a top or bottom) while he only liked to do that and found everything else about sex boring. There was even a point when we were arguing about sex and he lashed out at me saying that I have such a weird concept that we need all this kissing and touching every single time, he said he just wants me to f him and be done with it. That really killed things for me since I never got what I wanted. Nearly two years ago he actually cheated on me. His reason for that is that he wanted to break up with me and he knows how much I love(d) him and he thought it would make it easier but now that he did it he doesn't want to break up anymore. He opened up about the fact that he was going through some other things mentally (and while I think it's still not okay to cheat on someone because of that), I forgave him all things considered. The thing is, it was actually our sex life that he had a problem with me the most. Because of that I thought that we're good I just have to get better at having sex and do it more often (yeah in retrospect I recognize how messed up that whole thing was lol). The problem is that this put even more pressure on me to perform well while he didn't change too much, wasn't more emotionally available (well he was for a week and then things went back to "normal") and he even complained that doing it 2-3 times a week is still not enough for him, he wants more.

I put in so much effort into "becoming better", I even went to a doctor, got a testosterone test, they even prescribed me a pill that I could take sometimes before (because I did have problems due to him not putting enough emotional effort into it). He also put pressure on me for not being able to finish so I had to make up weird fantasies in my mind every single time in order to do so.

These past few months I've had this feeling that I might be on the asexual spectrum (which could also be the case since even in a good relationship I probably wouldn't mind if sometimes we took a week or two off from "actual sex" since there are a million other fun things to do as a couple) but demisexuality is starting to make so much sense (I've only recently heard about the fact that this is a thing). I feel that I'm much less ashamed to admit what I want and I don't mind admitting that I don't necessarily want to sleep with someone on a first or second date. Maybe after that I'd have fun just spending the night with them, sleeping together but not necessarily having sex. And maybe just gradually start experimenting with more and more stuff (like starting with kissing first, then later cuddling, undressing, etc...) and just find out what both of us like and form a sexual connection that way, as our relationship develops and actually be honest with each other about what we enjoy and what we don't, instead of just doing things that we think we're supposed to be doing or things that someone else wants me to do.

Am I completely crazy here? I feel like I've discovered something about myself while learning about demisexuality (which I'll assume is also a spectrum and I feel like I'm on it).

So BO6 was pretty much my first CoD game since like BO3 in 2015. At that point I just wanted to do different things, I've played other games too but I also quit because I was an impressionable 15-16 year old who always kept listening to others to tell me what I should enjoy and because of everyone complaining on the internet, I quit CoD, I didn't buy any of them starting with Infinite Warfare (I did briefly play MW19 and Vanguard but only for a few hours). I was convinced that CoD was dead since there was a lot of negativity around, however, now that I can look at things more objectively, a lot of people enjoyed those games and I feel like I could've been one of those people if I ignored what others said and just tried the games myself.

I feel like this omnimovement era is the same. A lot of people hate it, some would say it completely killed the series and that it lost its identity (because according to some people CoD can only be a military/war game for whatever weird reason) but there are so many of us who really enjoyed these two games. I haven't played BO7 since like June but I put hundreds of hours into it and it was the best time I've had with CoD since the BO2 days. I'm enjoying the MW4 beta - though it's tough getting used to it because all I know from the modern CoD days is omnimovement. I'm probably not gonna play BO7 anymore because I feel like I've played enough of it (plus I've sold my PC for personal reasons and I don't feel like buying it again for PS5) but we're slowly coming to an end of a fun, unique era of CoD and I'm so glad I got to be a part of this.