Christian Looking for Help Please Read
Hi, I don’t partake in the occult or witchcraft so obviously I don’t know much about it and I’m not wanting to learn either of script to just know if what has been going on around me might sound like it might belong to this sort of thing or not just to rule it out I guess?
So, not sure what’s going on with someone very close to me, but just wondering if this sounds like it might be anything related in this sub? It involves my husband and recently there have been rumors that someone that I had reasons to believe he may have gotten close with might also practice witchcraft. Anyways, after we moved to the house I bought us after he met this other person, a neighbor, things shifted pretty quickly too. The longer this goes on it seems the worse my husband gets too to the point of now there really isn’t anything left of the man I married that I get to even interact with anymore. Everything is different. His morals, personality, his character, his judgment, his conscious..etc.
Also, there was a night before things went south where he randomly begged me to agree for us to just pack our things and leave that night. He kept claiming that the house was haunted and has bad energy and it wasn’t going to be good for our relationship if we stayed. I had just poured so much time, effort, energy, and money into not only researching how to even buy our 1st home on my own, but I also paid for it myself and even had it all decorated and furnished and threw him a coming home surprise party so all he had to do was sit back and enjoy being home again so I just thought that maybe he had trouble adjusting and that it would pass, but I think I was very wrong and I wish we would have left that night.
After that he almost immediately began treating me like he believed I was out to get him & like I was his personal sworn enemy even though I hadn’t done anything to him to think or feel that way about me. That line of thinking with him towards me still hasn’t eased up at all either and now I’m to a point where I’m like ok if you can’t shake that line of thinking then I just can’t have you around me or close to me or give you access to me really because you thinking that way then puts me in danger of whatever you are capable of when you are thinking untrue things about me. Out 1st Halloween in the house my honest 1st thought was, “omg, he HAS to be possessed.”
Which at the time I was joking obviously but he just really wasn’t himself that night and so much that I felt it necessary that I leave the house because he was acting way out of control over nothing and he wasn’t calming down any. I sat in the woods for hours and then went home when I felt it had been long enough for him to cool his jets. Also, around this time period that person he met, the neighbor, they insisted that they give me a gift from their room so I just figured it was a thing they liked to do so I wanted to also show support and give her something of mine too. They gave he their gift but then things got strange when it came time for them to come get my gift from me.
I had only went to work and was at home cleaning when they texted me claiming that people were warning them about me stating that I couldn’t be trusted and I wasn’t really their friend, which didn’t make any sense considering I hadn’t talked to anyone about this person because like I said I literally went to work and then came home to clean when I contacted them to come over and pick up their gift.
Over time my husband has done things like lie about me to the rest of the neighbors, make fun of me, gossip about me, and just not act in my best interest at all. Fast forward to now though and he’s even worse than that to now he’s to the point where he isn’t even acting rationally or even in HIS own best interest anymore in my opinion and the last noticeable decline of him happened also this last Halloween. There was also some other things too like an instance of an unexplained swarm of just maggots in the center of my kitchen floor one morning when I woke up and even to this day I still have no idea where they came from.
They weren’t coming from the doors or the trash cans or the drains. They literally were just in the middle of the kitchen floor and above that is just a popcorn ceiling that is closed. After this last Halloween my husband has stopped having mental and emotional connection with me now too and it seems like maybe someone’s maybe even directing him to have as little contact with me as possible too. When I do hear from him all he asks about is money and that’s it.
It’s also interesting to also note that the person in question my husband might have gotten a little too close with acts similarly to a different neighbor that they unofficially (but my husband had me believing that this person was definitely dating this other neighbor at the time) and again they only ask the unofficial beaux neighbor for money all the time like my husband does to me, which I find interesting and this other neighbor is the one who said that they think that my husbands acquaintance practices witchcraft.
For a while now it hasn’t felt like I’m interacting with my husband at all and hasn’t really since that night in the bathroom when we should have left when he asked me. Can anyone tell me if I might be on some correct track here please? I would greatly appreciate any insight. Thank you! 😊