u/csssix

OA LANG BA AKO. My partner and I have been together for 8 years. During our early years, multiple times ko siyang tinanong if ilan na naka-sex niya for transparency and syempre, para na rin may idea ako on how many girls he has been with. Lagi niya lang sagot is tatlo.

Nito lang nakaraan when we were watching TV, ang genre ay romcom so generally, may mga kissing scenes. Out of nowhere, he said na he will tell something from his past. And he stated na his life before was hookups/meeting girls for casual sex. And he’s been in a bed with more than 10 girls. I froze to be honest, kasi I don’t know what should I react. I told him why he lied, and he said that if he told the truth before, we would not be together for this long. I said ang daming babae nun and sa totoo lang e nandidiri ako, with takot na rin also since there is a possibility ng mga sakit through sexual contact. When I said that, he mildly raises his voice by insisting that if he carry a disease that can be transferred, edi sana parehas na kaming payat/having physical issues.

I don’t know now. I feel like the story of us would have been changed if he was honest. Hindi ko na alam anong mararamdaman ko. Wala akong narinig na sorry or any form of apologizing. Parang ako pa ang nakasakit by saying that the act is nakakadiri.

Hi! In the field of KYC/AML and just wondering aside from banks, what are the companies/firms that usually have this position? I wanna give it a try since almost a decade na rin ako working sa banks so for new opportunities sana. Thanks!