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HDMI to VGA cable Price 200.

Laptop standard keyboard skin 100

D-Link, 300 Mbps USB Wi-Fi adapter receiver, 500.

Aroma diffuser for essential oil and six essential oils bottles, 800.

Smartwatch strap 22 mm, new and original, two pieces, 300 for both.

Derma roller, new, 400 for both.

Waist slim, shoulder back, 200 with adjustable strap.

100 years old attar bottle, 800.

Mobile phone holders, 100 each.

Set of 14 different paint brushes and rollers, all are good, 1200 for all.

Massager, wooden, handicraft, 300.

Hand grippers, new, 200.

C*ndoms, new and sealed, 50% of MRP.

Kitchen baking parchment paper, very good quality, new, 20 meters, two rolls, 300 for both.

USB-A to USB-C adapters, two for 200 for both.

Florida US imported pins, two quantity for 600 for both.

Coffee cups with lids, 200 each.

Loctite silicone waterproof, 250.

Logitech new wired mouse, 200 each.

Turtles made of shells and ceramic, small souvenirs, two pieces for 400.

Logitech keyboard and mouse, 600.

DVD writers, DVD drives HP, two quantity available, 400 each.

SATA splitter cable, 150.

Clock, thermometer, timer, alarm, 200.

Location: near paradise circle secunderabad

Even if it might not make much difference.

Market if flooded with Zebronics and ant which are not great.

All stuff is new

dell new keyboard wired price 400

Logitech Wired Mouse 200 (6 quantity available)

laptop Keyboard silicone skin 100

D-Link Wifi USB Nano Adapter 500

WiFi + Bluetooth Wireless Dual Band WLAN Card Adapter with Antennas 500 (2 quantity available)

Loctite Silicon Sealant for indoor outdoor use 250

Derma ROller 200 per piece (2 quantity available)

Sling waist bag imported with adjustable belt 150 (gently used)

cpu or cabinet fans 300 per piece

ceramic cup 200

Smart watch original strap 200 for 2 pieces

aroma diffuser with fragrance oils bottles 900

internal dvd drives HP 400 each

ikea clock alarm thermometer 200

All stuff is new

dell new keyboard wired price 400

Logitech Wired Mouse 200 (6 quantity available)

laptop Keyboard silicone skin 100

D-Link Wifi USB Nano Adapter 500

WiFi + Bluetooth Wireless Dual Band WLAN Card Adapter with Antennas 500 (2 quantity available)

Loctite Silicon Sealant for indoor outdoor use 250

Derma ROller 200 per piece (2 quantity available)

Sling waist bag imported with adjustable belt 150 (gently used)

cpu or cabinet fans 300 per piece

ceramic cup 200

Smart watch original strap 200 for 2 pieces

aroma diffuser with fragrance oils bottles 900

internal dvd drives HP 400 each

ikea clock alarm thermometer 200

My Grandfather & Mother were born in 1920 and 1947. I have their birth Teors. But i think other docs like marriage certificates don't exist. Is it possible to pay off people and get these documents made For Goan Portugese Citizenship? I know such things happen in other states.

We are not trying to cheat anyone, just that we are so late in the game that the process now requires hell lot of docs even from genuine Goan Folks like us.

Or does anyone know if we can still proceed with what we have already?

Okay, so hear me out. This is not a rant, but the truth. Maybe many of you might be facing this, but I don't see anyone accepting it so easily.

My cousin came from US and she wanted to go out and have dinner and food and lunches and etc.

so we went to a few places, but my mood suddenly started to be irritating and bad and constant overthinking and I felt exhausted for no reason.

I could not enjoy food. I was just restless all the time.

Later upon reflection, I realized it was the traffic and the lack of civic sense and mostly the increase in violent driving in Hyderabad, which is like a lot when you compare to other cities. Here you have to watch yourself 360 degrees, scanning traffic constantly and there are frequent mishaps.

On top of that, there is population explosion. So everywhere there are just so many people without added infrastructure..

Most of the city stinks of garbage, of drainage, of carbon., don't get me wrong, but things are not that bad in some other big cities. And we should focus on getting better.

Just when you step out of your home, you are dodging people, vehicles, inhaling pollution, constantly trying to argue with people, even in the market, even for food, there are queues, no good quality food, no proper customer service or people sticking to their words, everyone is out there to mostly scam you, very little trust, no sense of happiness at all.

The dust is literally killing us, our lungs.

So my cousin blamed me like i am overthinking and a spoil sport and not into enjoying life and trying to stay indoors all the time to save money.

Well, cut to three months later, I am in a small town for a few months. Here I find excuses to go out, roam around on bike or whatever. And I do stuff. I feel people are not here to kill me all the time. My mental state is very good. And even the air is good. The traffic is not so much. Even if it is, people are not that aggressive in terms of violent and rash driving. And the people mostly do what they say. Yes everyone tries to get more money out of you but there is some sense of deliverables as well.

So it was not me. It was our beloved city, Hyderabad. where people are actually not just rushing every day, they are trying to kill each other also.

So if the dust doesn't kill you, people will, and if somehow you are saved, the food will. Congratulations.

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Story 1: The blame

I’m a M. Recently I went to my in-laws’ place mainly for the sake of my kids.

Here’s what happened. My wife’s cousin was there, he’s extremely overweight, easily over 150 kg (maybe even closer to 170, not sure). Instead of sitting in the hall where we could all talk, after some time, he came into our bedroom and sat on the bed (where we sleep every night for the time we are here).

The moment he sat down, I could hear the bed wood creaking. After that day, even the slightest movement, even from a toddler, makes the bed make noises. It clearly got affected.

I asked my wife to at least inform her mother that there’s an issue with the bed now, but she didn’t say anything as she was busy. So I brought it up myself.

Her response? She blamed me. Said it’s because of my weight (I’m around 95 kg) and that “both your weights together” caused the problem.

I tried explaining basic logic , I’ve been using that bed for years (+my wife's weight) without any issue. The creaking started the exact moment the cousin sat on it. Most regular beds simply aren’t designed to handle a single person weighing 150+ kg in one spot. It’s not about insulting anyone, it’s just physics and load distribution.

But she refused to listen. Instead of understanding the situation, she just shifted the blame onto me.

To be clear, I don’t hate the cousin. But at some point, basic courtesy matters, if you know you’re that heavy, maybe be mindful of where you sit, especially on furniture that isn’t yours.

What bothers me more is my mother-in-law’s attitude. It feels like she’s always ready to blame me rather than even consider my side. This incident just made things clearer for me.

Am I overreacting here?

Story 2: Being told to stay out of “family matters” even though I’m family

My wife has a cousin (female) who, some time back, was going through a difficult emotional phase. During that time, she used to spend a lot of time with us . we’d hang out, go out together, talk, and support her. It genuinely felt like she was comfortable and happy in our company, and we were glad to be there for her.

Now things have changed. She’s working somewhere, which is great, but despite living just two blocks away from my in-laws’ place, she barely responds anymore. She doesn’t pick up calls or return them, even on weekends. She is not bothered about trying to meet us once even once as we have come from so far.

I was talking to my wife about this, not in an angry way, just generally saying that this kind of behavior doesn’t feel right. When someone is around only when they need support and then disappears, it can feel like you were just being used.

While I was discussing this, my mother-in-law overheard and suddenly jumped in, shouting at me: “Don’t say anything about her, don’t get into our family matters.”

That didn’t sit right with me. I said, “I’m family too, right? And I was involved in too, so I’m affected by this as well.”

But instead of even listening to what I was trying to say, she just kept shouting and shut me down completely.

It’s not even about the cousin at this point , people change, situations change, I get that. What bothered me more was being told I have no place to even express a thought, despite being part of the same family and having been involved when it mattered. Again the Prioroites in her Heart are Clear, a selfish Neice/nephew is still better than a good Son in law.

Am I wrong to feel disrespected here?

Story 3: “Why did you have 2 kids?”

One day, things were getting a bit overwhelming while managing the kids, and my wife got emotional and started crying. It was just one of those tough parenting moments , nothing unusual.

But what shocked me was my mother-in-law’s reaction. Instead of showing concern or support, the first thing she said to me was: “Why did you have 2 kids? Wasn’t one enough?”

That really didn’t sit well with me.

For context, we are financially stable, and both my wife and I are single children. We chose to have two kids because we didn’t want our children to grow up alone like we did. It was a conscious and well-thought-out decision.

But honestly, that’s not even the main issue here.

What bothered me was the attitude behind that statement — the timing, the lack of empathy, and the audacity to question such a personal decision in that moment. Instead of offering support when her own daughter was upset, she chose to criticize.

I just can’t wrap my head around how someone can say something like that in such a situation.

Am I overreacting, or was that completely out of line?

Going Ahead:::::

Honestly, I used to think long-term I’d take responsibility for her and support her as she ages. But after this, I’m starting to feel like she doesn’t really have any goodwill toward me, and her priorities are obvious.

Now I’m seriously considering distancing myself.

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