Over paranoid?
AIO - My husband and i have been married 26 years. We met at work and have a mutual friend from work - friend of my husband . He’s since married a few years after us. We’re all friends.
This “friend” is a quipster/ joker and we’ve been on vacation with this couple before. We just came back on vacation with them. And I gotta say, I was weirded out by said “friend”. His “jokingly “ innuendos became a bit obvious to me, especially when an “ I love you” came into play. I told him, yeah I , “love you too”. From a friend pov. Then I went to go to bed with the husband that I love going 26 years strong. Then it dawned on me. All the quips and innuendos were adding up. Does this guy like me? Because I distanced myself from him and leaned on and towards my husband every step of the way on this trip. I think “friend” noticed the shift in my attitude. Am I being paranoid? Or is this to be brushed under the rug and I’m overthinking this? We’ve all known each other 28 years. Inputs please. Am I overreacting?