Property Dispute: Will we find justice?

I'm hoping someone with more legal experience in the Philippines can help shed some light on the following case:

Story:

My gf grew up without her biological mother and father. She was legally adopted by her aunt and her aunt's husband when she was just a baby. Her adoptive father owned two properties in Manila while he was alive (a house and an apartment), and he passed away without a will about 12 years ago.

According to filipino law, if you pass away without a will, all of your assets are divided equally between your wife and your remaining heirs. Her adoptive father had one wife (my gf's aunt), and two adopted children besides my gf (three children total). Therefore, the law is very clear and simple on this: his assets should be divided between his living wife and his three children (25% each).

However, despite all rent moneys from both properties being divided equally for the first several years, his eldest daughter took over both properties during the pandemic and stopped sending rent payments. For the last five years, she has taken all rent moneys to herself and herself alone. Her rationale is that she renovated the units, and therefore, she deserves all the rent money now. However, no one asked her to renovate the units, and whatever she spent on renovations, has already been returned to her 5X or more. Finally, the eldest daughter is lucky she's even entitled to anything at all because in most countries the assets would just pass to the wife and not the children. Instead, she took EVERYTHING for herself.

Anyways, the law is very clear on this. She can't do this, and the only reason she was able to get away with it for five years is because my gf and her aunt (adoptive mother) didn't have the financial resources to hire a lawyer. But ... I do.

I tried reaching out to the eldest daughter, but she blocked me on FB and refused to answer my texts. My next step is to pay a lawyer to send her demand letters. If she neglects to answer those, I'll take her to court for all rent moneys from the last five years in addition to damages for emotional distress. I will also sue for my attorney fees to be reimbursed. My gf was in college when all of this this happened, but she had to leave school to support her family because a big part of her income at the time was that rent money.

I have no doubt that we'll win the case, but what I'm not sure of is how long it will take and how effective the court systems are here at getting things like this resolved. The eldest daughter is pretty terrible, and I'm pretty sure some of her assets will have to be seized in order my gf to finally get compensated ...

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u/davidsling7 — 1 day ago
▲ 0 r/bali

What’s the best gym in Nusa Dua?

I keep hearing everyone talk about the gyms in Bali. What’s the biggest and best gym in the area? Is there anything here that pretty much has everything?

I’m just doing a day pass, so I don’t care about the price. But from what I can see so far, the gyms on this part of the island are not the best. I’m willing to drive further if it’s worth it …

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u/davidsling7 — 14 days ago
▲ 476 r/marriott

St. Regis Bali $1,000 a night room 😭

First, I just have to say that the staff here are excellent. Everyone is beyond nice and professional.

However, the rooms we received are completely substandard (especially considering the $1,000 a night price tage). The first room we received on the 2nd floor was completely musty, so we switched to a higher level right away. As soon as you walk in, it just smells moldy and musty. And now that we are on the sixth floor, we got a low quality, out-dated, and just lame room. And to add insult to injury, they are charging $1,000 a night for these rooms. We came to Bali for a luxurious high-end getaway, and instead, this is what we got. At these prices, you would expect ultra-high end luxury and not this. This is my first time in Bali, so I don't know if this is representative of this particular hotel, or Bali in general, but so far, I'm very disappointed.

P.S. I was hoping to have an ocean view, and instead I got a tent to look at instead. I don't know if this is a joke, but I hope there's at least a clown inside. Or, maybe, I'm the clown for giving them $6000 for a 6-night stay, lol ...

u/davidsling7 — 15 days ago
▲ 293 r/bali

St. Regis Bali hotel $1000 a night hotel room :(

First, I just have to say that the staff here are excellent. Everyone is beyond nice and professional.

However, the rooms we received are completely substandard (especially considering the $1,000 a night price tage). The first room we received on the 2nd floor was completely musty, so we switched to a higher level right away. As soon as you walk in, it just smells moldy and musty. And now that we are on the sixth floor, we got a low quality, out-dated, and just lame room. And to add insult to injury, they are charging $1,000 a night for these rooms. We came to Bali for a luxurious high-end getaway, and instead, this is what we got. At these prices, you would expect ultra-high end luxury and not this. This is my first time in Bali, so I don't know if this is representative of this particular hotel, or Bali in general, but so far, I'm very disappointed.

P.S. I was hoping to have an ocean view, and instead I got a tent to look at instead. I don't know if this is a joke, but I hope there's at least a clown inside. Or, maybe, I'm the clown for giving them $6000 for a 6-night stay, lol ...

u/davidsling7 — 16 days ago

Inaccurate CSV files since yesterday

Is anyone else having this problem? Thinkorswim has been producing inaccurate CSV files for me since yesterday. They are 100% incorrect, and in my case, the difference is about 15k. I made 120k in the last two months, but my logs on Tradersync are saying I made about 135k.

I can't fix it no matter what I do ...

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u/davidsling7 — 29 days ago
▲ 42 r/Turkey

Male quotas at Turkish resorts

I just came across a policy I've never encountered before.

My gf is competing at a beauty pageant in Turkey, and all I wanted to do was stay at the resort hosting them for a few days, so I could attend the coronation night. We weren't going to hangout. She wasn't going to stay in my room. We wouldn't even hold hands in public. I just wanted to offer a little moral support and attend the finals. That's it. It's her first time traveling alone.

But I can't. The hotel doesn't allow single males to book rooms.

Anyways, as far as I can tell, this is illegal (even in Turkey). And I know that if they had women quotas, black quotas, or any other kind of discriminatory quota, it would make the news. But male quotas are OK, I guess ...

But is this legal? It doesn't seem like it, and I think they can get fined for it.

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u/davidsling7 — 2 months ago

I live in Clark. The following is a video from a gun range that's only a few hundred meters away from my house. It sounds like a war zone here, and sometimes it will go on all day.

Are there any laws to protect home owners from gun ranges? We're trying to approach the CDC here. I'm surprised they allow this. The gun ranges should be at a safe distance from homes in case of stray bullets + to avoid the constant noise.

https://reddit.com/link/1t44w27/video/ko41pc92w8zg1/player

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u/davidsling7 — 2 months ago