Need advice

So recently my parents found out I’ve been dating a girl. My mother has made it very clear that she won’t accept or support me. I decided to have my girlfriend over once, which went very wrong and resulted in my mom and my girlfriend having genuine beef.
I haven’t been able to see my girlfriend much since then because of scheduling conflicts, but I’m honestly unsure how I’m supposed to navigate this. I love my girlfriend, but I’m so worried about the consequences of being honest with my parents. At the same time, I’m exhausted from feeling like I have to hide my relationship.
Unfortunately, my parents still financially support me, and they can track my phone and car, so going to see her is also incredibly risky. More than anything, I just want to have a normal relationship with this girl.
Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How did you handle balancing an unsupportive family while still trying to have a healthy relationship? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

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u/deadflowerclub_ — 5 days ago
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Need advice

So recently my parents found out I’ve been dating a girl. My mother has made it very clear that she won’t accept or support me. I decided to have my girlfriend over once, which went very wrong and resulted in my mom and my girlfriend having genuine beef.
I haven’t been able to see my girlfriend much since then because of scheduling conflicts, but I’m honestly unsure how I’m supposed to navigate this. I love my girlfriend, but I’m so worried about the consequences of being honest with my parents. At the same time, I’m exhausted from feeling like I have to hide my relationship.
Unfortunately, my parents still financially support me, and they can track my phone and car, so going to see her is also incredibly risky. More than anything, I just want to have a normal relationship with this girl.
Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How did you handle balancing an unsupportive family while still trying to have a healthy relationship? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

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u/deadflowerclub_ — 5 days ago