Couldnt get erect during paid sex
23 years old. No girlfriend and addicted to porn causing me to engage in paid sex for several times.
For first few times, I have delayed ejaculation (due to death grip syndrome) and could only finish off by handjob.
However, yesterday was a total disaster and humiliation for me. I suffered from erectile dysfunction suddenly during intercourse. No matter how hard she and I tried, it remains flaccid and it's probably the first time in years that I can't get hard by hand job myself.
I know no fap would improve the situation at least for death grip, but still unsure of the reason behind yesterday incident. When I went back room yesterday night, I tried to masturbate alone but the sensation is not intense and I still struggle from ED.
Could constant edging for past 3/4 days causing tiredness? Or performance anxiety cause me to lose erection during sex?
Probably should have stopped this earlier and now I felt terrible and disappointed at myself. Anyone faced this situation before and any advice in solving this?