Couldnt get erect during paid sex

23 years old. No girlfriend and addicted to porn causing me to engage in paid sex for several times.

For first few times, I have delayed ejaculation (due to death grip syndrome) and could only finish off by handjob.

However, yesterday was a total disaster and humiliation for me. I suffered from erectile dysfunction suddenly during intercourse. No matter how hard she and I tried, it remains flaccid and it's probably the first time in years that I can't get hard by hand job myself.

I know no fap would improve the situation at least for death grip, but still unsure of the reason behind yesterday incident. When I went back room yesterday night, I tried to masturbate alone but the sensation is not intense and I still struggle from ED.

Could constant edging for past 3/4 days causing tiredness? Or performance anxiety cause me to lose erection during sex?

Probably should have stopped this earlier and now I felt terrible and disappointed at myself. Anyone faced this situation before and any advice in solving this?

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u/dyingofalevel — 18 hours ago

Spoiler autoshow

Sorry, new user here as my course tutor uses discord for discussions. Been great so far but the spoiler mode frustrates me.

How do I change settings to make all spoilers messages or images automatically showing (so I won't need to click everything once before it shows)?

Specifically in android app version

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u/dyingofalevel — 14 days ago
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Change lecture class

Is it possible to change lecture class just because of timetable inconvenience? Both slots should be full based on 3rd round demand.

Any better excuses/reasons to get approval?

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u/dyingofalevel — 14 days ago
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CS4243 workload

I'm trying to fulfil AI focus area by taking CS4243 this sem under Prof Angela.

How's the workload and difficulty of this course? (maybe comparing with CS2109S)

Will being average in linear algebra disadvantages me particularly in this mod or is it still muggable? Thanks for any comments

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u/dyingofalevel — 20 days ago
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GEN2062

I've just been allocated GEN2062X, but I'm planning to do ATAP in Sem 2.

Because this GEN course requires 3 hours commitment on site + some travelling time, I'm quite stressed about:

  1. How common or flexible is it for companies to allow this?

  2. What timing/day is safest to pick to "maximise" chances of getting approval for this?

  3. Is it hard to get A for GEN2062

Or any general advice on taking hours of leave during IA for nus courses commitment?

Or any encouragement/discouragement to do so or about the course is very appreciated here.

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u/dyingofalevel — 29 days ago
▲ 5 r/nus

ACC1701X workload

Hello. I'm planning my next sem mod with

3 core mods

Is2218

Another cd/id mod (probably ACC1701X)

Any seniors who took ACC1701X, what's the workload of it? (not with SU mindset as I barely have any SU left).

And also is it hard to grind for A- or above?

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u/dyingofalevel — 1 month ago