I saw THS for the first time last night, I brought my friend I met in recovery who’s legs are rotting from injecting opioids, I was overcome with emotions I haven’t yet been able to name

The Hold Steady played all of Boys and Girls in America then played a few other bangers like Constructive Summer. My friend isn’t too familiar with their music, but from start to finish, I was unexpectedly filled with uncontainable joy, shouting every lyric into my friend’s ear during the moments he was able to stand—he had to take breaks to sit down intermittently.

I met this guy ten years ago when we both attended the same extended inpatient rehabilitation program in Portland, OR, and we share the same first name, as well as an affinity for opioids, though he went way harder than me. I played him Banging Camp, and Hoodrat Friend on the acoustic guitar during our recreation time. He was better than me at both playing and singing.

Fast forward ten years later, his addiction spiraled out of control, and his body has paid the price. I’m 38, and he’s 36. Despite both his legs, and his teeth visibly rotting, he took the train into the city on a last minute invitation to see THS with me, even though he barely knew their music.

I’ve been listening to the first four albums since my addiction started in my 20s, and Craig’s lyrics about addiction, love, aging, spiritually, and recovery played a huge role in my getting better, and truly, not letting my addiction get out of control, but seeing them live for the first time with a friend whose situation isn’t ever going to improve, gave me a perspective that’s eluded me until that moment.

Some of us aren’t going to make it, but those of us who stand a chance need to take it before it’s too late, because there does come a point when hope and strength will fade, and there will be nothing left to help you scrape your way out of the shit. Even your buddy who understands your pain shouting some of rock’s most inspiring lyrics into your ears.

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u/eatherichortrydietin — 10 days ago

Lloyd Center sucks and I won’t miss it

The ice rink was cool, and it was cute to see small businesses take over the empty storefronts but that’s about it. It was one of the worst and least safe malls I’ve ever been to.

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u/eatherichortrydietin — 11 days ago
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Bennett Miller (and other directors overdue for a comeback)

Bennet Miller’s last film was Foxcatcher (2014), and it—along with his two previous features Moneyball (2011) and Capote (2007)—has a rating above 7.0 on IMDb. Everything he’s done was well received by audiences and critics alike, praised even.

That being said, he’s had A Christmas Carol listed as “in preproduction” for the better part of a decade. He isn’t among the great directors mentioned regularly when people talk about great cinema, but he has a consistently solid track record in his output, and his movies do considerably well at the box office. I personally feel his absence in the ecosystem, which has me wondering what other great directors we haven’t heard from in far too long.

Who is that director for you?

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u/eatherichortrydietin — 26 days ago

Last Night (original song) - Rutherford Hill - Live at Phantom Power in Millersville, PA

I recently discovered this guy from central PA. I like this song a lot. What do you all think?

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u/eatherichortrydietin — 1 month ago

Best shops easily accessible from Asagaya Station, Japan?

I’ll be visiting Japan for the first time in October. I’d love to get recommendations on the best shops featuring heritage style clothing. I’m most interested in denim but not exclusively.

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u/eatherichortrydietin — 2 months ago

Bought a pair of The Strike Gold SG5209 second hand. Wondering how much more they’ll break-in since they are very tight around the thighs

Also wanted to show off my Iron Maiden GD shirt

u/eatherichortrydietin — 2 months ago