u/elleeennaaa

Me(23) F and my bf(23) M, a few days ago we were at his house, he went to take a bath and I was sitting alone with his mother she told me he can’t do anything alone especially house work he doesn’t help her around the house or preparing meal etc. and I told her that I want in my marriage to be 50/50 ( im talking about chores) for example I make the dinner he washes the dishes and she said no one lives like that it’s always more on the girl.

He came back got ready to go outside with me and his mom asked him if she needs to prepare the breakfast for tomorrow he said yes and she replied like ahh again you won’t help me with that and I said well let him do it himself he needs to make meal by himself and he pointed at me and said is THIS what should I bring home ? Then again for second time the same sentence, in this moment his aunt is here too. I didn’t say anything I was in shock from what he said and his mom didn’t say anything either.

We got out of the house im starting an argument because of that and he put his hand od my mouth to not talk because the neighbor was passing by and he would hear us arguing, mind you when he put his hand on my mouth there were a group of boys In front of us sitting and watching… but he blocked me from talking because his neighbor might’ve heard something??? We are in the car after that im yelling at him he yells back even more and louder, stopped at the reastaurant to eat I said I don’t want to he said okay let me solve this situation I said I don’t want to talk he said okay then let me say what I’ve got I said I don’t care and I won’t listen because you can’t make out of this situation and he said okay im bringing you home, no contact for the rest of the night and the day after, after that he texts and said that if I don’t admit that im wrong we should be done and I said I don’t see where im wrong here to give such a stupid comment in front of me and his mom mocking me like im object is this what I should bring home? Is he for real? Today he admits he’s wrong about the comment and the hand putting on me to shut me up but still says that I’ve made a mistake too

Me(23) F and my bf(23) M, a few days ago we were at his house, he went to take a bath and I was sitting alone with his mother she told me he can’t do anything alone especially house work he doesn’t help her around the house or preparing meal etc. and I told her that I want in my marriage to be 50/50 ( im talking about chores) for example I make the dinner he washes the dishes and she said no one lives like that it’s always more on the girl.

He came back got ready to go outside with me and his mom asked him if she needs to prepare the breakfast for tomorrow he said yes and she replied like ahh again you won’t help me with that and I said well let him do it himself he needs to make meal by himself and he pointed at me and said is THIS what should I bring home ? Then again for second time the same sentence, in this moment his aunt is here too. I didn’t say anything I was in shock from what he said and his mom didn’t say anything either.

We got out of the house im starting an argument because of that and he put his hand od my mouth to not talk because the neighbor was passing by and he would hear us arguing, mind you when he put his hand on my mouth there were a group of boys In front of us sitting and watching… but he blocked me from talking because his neighbor might’ve heard something??? We are in the car after that im yelling at him he yells back even more and louder, stopped at the reastaurant to eat I said I don’t want to he said okay let me solve this situation I said I don’t want to talk he said okay then let me say what I’ve got I said I don’t care and I won’t listen because you can’t make out of this situation and he said okay im bringing you home, no contact for the rest of the night and the day after, after that he texts and said that if I don’t admit that im wrong we should be done and I said I don’t see where im wrong here to give such a stupid comment in front of me and his mom mocking me like im object is this what I should bring home? Is he for real? Today he admits he’s wrong about the comment and the hand putting on me to shut me up but still says that I’ve made a mistake too

Hello, so im in a narcissistic relationship and i know it, it's my second
relationship like this that's what hurts.
He has been calling me names i said i don't respect him over that and that didn't change, always everything is my fault and when im talking about something that bothers me its always me "arguing" and making problems while he's the " best boyfriend", later found out he liked another girl birthday story he said he was wishing hbd with the like nothing special maybe it's really not that deep but seriously?, another thing he said is that he will beat me next time we argue because he don't have a nerves and temper with me anymore and said he don't look me as his wife later when I broke up with him he told me he didn't mean any of these he just said these thing to end the arguments because there was not any other way and the latest thing that happened he said he wouldn't put effort to be with my friends or go on double dates from my side but me going out with his friends and their girlfriends is how it should be because he wanted to keep his circle small, also he never called me a sweet nickname or something only in the beginning and he doesn't tell me occasionally I love you or things like that idk I miss you or something because he wasn't clingy, I know it's bad you don't have to tell me, but why am I stuck how can I leave him I want to and I know I should but everytime I'm close to that I go back why can't I just stood by myself and leave literally i don't even have a reason why im still with him?

Hello, so im in a narcissistic relationship and i know it, it's my second
relationship like this that's what hurts.
He has been calling me names i said i don't respect him over that and that didn't change, always everything is my fault and when im talking about something that bothers me its always me "arguing" and making problems while he's the " best boyfriend", later found out he liked another girl birthday story he said he was wishing hbd with the like nothing special maybe it's really not that deep but seriously?, another thing he said is that he will beat me next time we argue because he don't have a nerves and temper with me anymore and said he don't look me as his wife later when I broke up with him he told me he didn't mean any of these he just said these thing to end the arguments because there was not any other way and the latest thing that happened he said he wouldn't put effort to be with my friends or go on double dates from my side but me going out with his friends and their girlfriends is how it should be because he wanted to keep his circle small, also he never called me a sweet nickname or something only in the beginning and he doesn't tell me occasionally I love you or things like that idk I miss you or something because he wasn't clingy, I know it's bad you don't have to tell me, but why am I stuck how can I leave him I want to and I know I should but everytime I'm close to that I go back why can't I just stood by myself and leave literally i don't even have a reason why im still with him?