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did my dad cheat on my late mother with my stepmom?

a year or so ago, my stepmom was getting onto me about my behavior and during this conversation she made a small mention about how she's "known me my entire life." i didn't question it, but presently i've become more and more suspicious about what this meant

for some context, my dad left me, my brother, and my mom when i was around 4 years old. from what i remember, he'd to to the gym after dinner and wouldn't come back until the early morning. my mom moved us out shortly after this started, and i never saw my father again until i was around 9 or 10 years old

whenever i’d ask about seeing my dad, my mom always said before i would not like who he was. she also said that he never wanted split custody of my brother and i, but be maintains that she made it difficult for him to see us.

i now know that my mother was right about my father not being a good man, and i’m planning to cut him off completely soon. but is it possible that there was an affair that happened when i was a kid or before my parents’ separation?

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u/ellyfebruary6 — 9 hours ago

how to detach (for neurodivergent ppl)

hi all,

i’ve been spiraling the last few days about receiving my dream job and making money as soon as i can. normally i can take my time with things like these, but i’m facing immense pressure and threats from my family that’s making me spiral.

coupled with this, i’m neurodivergent (audhd) and because of this, i’ve began to hyperfixate on receiving my desire. i wake up thinking about it, always listening to subliminals and saturating, checking the 3D constantly for it, and just can’t seem to fully detach from it.

i feel like most manifestation advice i can find on detachment is made for neurotypical minds and it’s always hard for me to use that advice in praxis. i’d really appreciate any advise from fellow neurodivergence manifestors. and please don’t say anything along the lines of neurodivergence being a negative assumption; i don’t view my audhd as something negative, and i believe it is something that is a part of my source and it’s something that i love about myself (despite the challenges)

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u/ellyfebruary6 — 3 days ago

dfw internation flight - food?

hi all, i just flew in from France and despite being a Texas native i’ve never been to DFW Airport more than once

was wondering if I can still access any food places inside the airport after I’ve exited baggage, or am i already outside of security? and if i am, are there any food options outside of security?

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u/ellyfebruary6 — 6 days ago

[TOMT] children’s book series from the early & middle 2010s

i’m trying to recall one children’s comic book series that i used to LOVE when i was in 3rd grade (around 2015-2016).

the only things i can remember is that one of the books had a blue cover, the main character’s name was pj (i think), and there was some storyline about a macaroni bandit. the art style was also veryyy similar to diary of a wimpy kid

the other series were books by a very specific illustrator (can’t remember the author). these books also had a very distinctive art style and always included a snippet illustration of what would happen on the next page (like a sneak peak sorta thing). the books were usually about woodland creatures and i distinctly recall some of them being christmas-y books.

i vaguely remember the illustrator’s name being jane but im honestly not sure

please let me know if anyone recognizes these, I’m driving myself crazy trying to figure it out 😵‍💫

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u/ellyfebruary6 — 20 days ago