did my dad cheat on my late mother with my stepmom?
a year or so ago, my stepmom was getting onto me about my behavior and during this conversation she made a small mention about how she's "known me my entire life." i didn't question it, but presently i've become more and more suspicious about what this meant
for some context, my dad left me, my brother, and my mom when i was around 4 years old. from what i remember, he'd to to the gym after dinner and wouldn't come back until the early morning. my mom moved us out shortly after this started, and i never saw my father again until i was around 9 or 10 years old
whenever i’d ask about seeing my dad, my mom always said before i would not like who he was. she also said that he never wanted split custody of my brother and i, but be maintains that she made it difficult for him to see us.
i now know that my mother was right about my father not being a good man, and i’m planning to cut him off completely soon. but is it possible that there was an affair that happened when i was a kid or before my parents’ separation?